A shy one... |
A shy one... |
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![]() big fat cheerio ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,250 ![]() |
I have always been a shy type of person, especially in class. Every year teachers always come up to me and say that academically I am doing fine, but my in class participation is low. I feel shy asking teachers questions, and asking for help. One time, our teacher blamed the whole class that none of us were participating or asking questions, so I asked a question, just to make him feel better. He then got pissed at me because he said "I just spent the past 10 minutes explaining that to you." and did not answer my question.
I think because of this, I dont feel confident enough to ask teachers questions without making a fool out of myself. Do any of you have tips on how to boost my confidence level in class? |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 420,727 ![]() |
Hm. Well, when other people ask questions, do you ever think to yourself, "Hey, I wanted to ask/know that, too!" Something that helps may be thinking about how other people may want to ask the same question you're asking, so when you do ask the question, you're helping others as well. I have a fear of making a fool out of myself as well. >< Haha, and I too totally lack in the class participation area. Honestly, though, I think that most people wouldn't care, even if you do sound a bit foolish. Most people are understandable. If people laugh or snicker at you after you ask a question, ignore them. You're in school to receive an education; you don't need or deserve things like that. Also, I'm sure your teachers will be glad to see you participating more. :D You don't have to all of a sudden raise your hand every few minutes. Take it slowly, maybe ask or answer a question every other day; just do it at a pace that makes you feel more comfortable.
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