exs, poll, have you ever gotten back together with an ex? Options

[actionrobot_go]

So, when it's over is it really really over? Do your feelings and 'i-love-you's ever really go away entirely? Do people ever rediscover each other years later, after they've both matured and grown? I got dumped because we didn't make eachother happy anymore and both wanted different things (in terms of intensity). We had something, I think. Is it possible, or plausible, to get back together with an ex later on in life?

and I swear I won't make another post about my realationship problems because I'm even annoying myself, sorry CB.

[lyin_in_wait]

ive been guilty of it twice. the first time was a horrible relationship, i wasnt happy and i was basically using him now that i look back on it. i just needed someone to "love me" and that wasnt right to treat him the way i did. but the second time i did it was because i needed him to see that i was dealing with the crap by myself. when he just said let it slide, it wasnt working when i got the the backlash. eventually we worked everything out and we are back and happier...

but you gotta be careful. if you broke up because you just didnt feel it anymore, then its time to move on. but if you still have feelings for him then its ok to relook the relationship. just remember why yall split. and go from there