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losing friends |
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so yea.. i realized.. i've "lost"/ become veryyyy distant with almost all my friends because i dont spend anymore time with them.. i understand why it's happening and all.. it's cause of my boyfriends.. since we go to the same school, we spend nearly all our time together.. during lunch.. in between classes.. yea.. you get the idea.. apparently we're known as the couple that's stuck to each other like glue.. (probably some other things.. but i never heard).. im still super close with my bf.. but im finally realizing how much i miss my friends.. and they.. well.. you can tell they dont really try/want to talk to me anymore...
![]() just wondering if this has ever happened to you..? loosing friends because you're spending too much time with your bf? ![]() if you have any ideas how i can become closer with them would be great too...(other than just talking with them.. cause i think it'd be akward.. i mean.. "hi.. yea.. i ditched you for my bf for almost half a year now.. but yea.. let's talk cause i have time for you again..." ![]() thanks |
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![]() none of it seems real ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 ![]() |
You just have to manage your time. Just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you have to spend all your time with him. If you are that close with him he should be able to understand that. I imagine he has lost friends because of you aswell so I am sure he feels the same way.
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![]() <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 ![]() |
You just have to manage your time. Just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you have to spend all your time with him. If you are that close with him he should be able to understand that. I imagine he has lost friends because of you aswell so I am sure he feels the same way. i agree.. you will have to find some way to get your friends back because they should not be the ones talkin to you because you chose your boyfriend over hanging out with them so YOU should be the one talkin to them and trying everyway to get them back..and he should do the same with his own friends..hope everything turns out okay. =) |
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