Does he REALLY want her, things don't add up Options

[blucheri]

My friend01 is 17. And this guy who is now her boyfriend is 25. He's a business man/producer. Living in a Bronx apartment. He goes on Trips to Japan and L.A.

Recently he told her he was going to Japan. And told her not to call him for a month. He told her he'd be SSSSSSSSSOOOOO busy. well TTTTTTTTOOOOOOOOOO busy to talk. Well funny. When my other friend02 called him he picked up his phone like everything was normal.

Then we realized a couple of reasons why he can't be in Japan. And she then wanted to see if he was still here in NYC. So today we went to his apartment. And she called him and from what I heard "Its me, your girlfriend"

how you not recognize your girlfriends voice

And he wasn't in Japan he went to L.A.

Also I asked my other friend02 if she found it weird that My friend01 always had to be alone, or had to talk to her boyfriend alone its like my friend01 has something to hide.

And I found it weird how the whole time we chilled with my friend01 and her boyfriend they barely touched.

And when it was time for us to leave he was playing around with his cell phone. She needed time alone to say goodbye to him. (BULLSh!T)

I'm so sorry. But what does a 25 yr old guy want with a 17 yr old. And my friend01 ain't no supermodel material either.

And please don't say "they can talk" because she said the same thing. Yet the man is a music producer and my friend01 didn't know the difference between Tupac and Big Pun.

Something is sssssssssoooooooo wrong. Can u people PPPPPPPPPLLLLLLLLLLLLEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEE help.

[*Uronacid*]

man, i don't think that you can so anythinga bout the situation... if she asks for your opinion give it to her... but she will really only take your advice if she wants it... this may be a situation where she needs to learn that he doesn't like her on her own...

really, it sounds like he's just using her as something on the side....

express to her that you care about the situation... thats all you can do... other than that, you're just an out side viewer so you really don't know whats going on within the realtionship... doesn't mean you can't ask tho :)