Does he REALLY want her, things don't add up Options

[blucheri]

My friend01 is 17. And this guy who is now her boyfriend is 25. He's a business man/producer. Living in a Bronx apartment. He goes on Trips to Japan and L.A.

Recently he told her he was going to Japan. And told her not to call him for a month. He told her he'd be SSSSSSSSSOOOOO busy. well TTTTTTTTOOOOOOOOOO busy to talk. Well funny. When my other friend02 called him he picked up his phone like everything was normal.

Then we realized a couple of reasons why he can't be in Japan. And she then wanted to see if he was still here in NYC. So today we went to his apartment. And she called him and from what I heard "Its me, your girlfriend"

how you not recognize your girlfriends voice

And he wasn't in Japan he went to L.A.

Also I asked my other friend02 if she found it weird that My friend01 always had to be alone, or had to talk to her boyfriend alone its like my friend01 has something to hide.

And I found it weird how the whole time we chilled with my friend01 and her boyfriend they barely touched.

And when it was time for us to leave he was playing around with his cell phone. She needed time alone to say goodbye to him. (BULLSh!T)

I'm so sorry. But what does a 25 yr old guy want with a 17 yr old. And my friend01 ain't no supermodel material either.

And please don't say "they can talk" because she said the same thing. Yet the man is a music producer and my friend01 didn't know the difference between Tupac and Big Pun.

Something is sssssssssoooooooo wrong. Can u people PPPPPPPPPLLLLLLLLLLLLEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEE help.

[*This Confession*]

well i'm 14 and my boyfriend is 20
I'm not some supermodel material either.
Okay I'm 15 pretty much since my birthday is soon.


I want to say its not exactly your place to judge it all, because it really isn't. But you are worried about your friend and her relationship because you care? You need to talk to her about it be very understanding and make sure she knows that you care about her and don't want her to get hurt or something. It sounds to me hes trying to avoid her and that hes not very "into her." I mean they very well are just not comfortable in front of other people. I don't know though.


Do you have any other information that would put something to this. I mean what do you think their doing? Why are you so concerned and stuff.

I did think that you may think hes like cheating on her. I mean sayings hes going to be here and hes somewhere else completely and then telling her not to call him for a month!? Wtf. If you don't want to talk to your own girlfriend atleast everyday or every other day or something close to each other but one whole month is kind of eery.