going to a club every friday Options

[misfit]

My boyfriend goes to a club every friday night,would you care if your boyfriend did?I don't go because I am underage,but I turn 18 in August this year.My sister said she is suprised that I let him go out every Friday night..A while ago he said to me what's wrong with going out and dancing and drinking with my friends?Nothing of course..but I dunno?

[misfit]

um wow.i didnt even realise people had replied to it.Uronacid,that was uncalled for and no i'm not wondering if I should worry because of what my sister said.I think she was saying that because of what her boyfriend treated her like.He cheated on her,hit her and everything and she loved him that much that she kept taking him back.They have a kid,but now he is dead because he died from Cancer last year.I think she was just thinking back about it and thinking of me and hoping he's not doing anything.

I admit I do get a bit shitty when he tells me his going out.I just worry about htat he'll end up with some girl.He says to me he doesn't dance with other girls he just dances with his friends(not dirty dancing though) and that's fine...but I still can't help but worry.We were fighting fora gs about a week or so ago now and it was a long weekend..I said to him heh stupid me for hoping we'd spend the whole weekend together.And he said who said I didnt want to?And I said you would of said if you wanted to...Then he said well if you had mentioned it then I would of said yes..And I said I shouldn't have to mention it..Anyway he said he wanted to spend the whole weekend with me.So we did.And we went to a party together on the Saturday night.
I just spose I have to learn to accept it..i'm just a bit insecure so i'm worried about the whole club scene.
I mean I found out that him and his riend met this rich girl and she bought them drinks and she hugged my boyfriend and said I like you.Even though she has a boyfriend and new that he had a girlfriend.And she said to him he was cute.They were just friends but how they met is that him and his friend were just asking them about something and the rich girl was with her two guy bestfriends and her boyfriend wasn't there.And so yeah they all ended up talking. I don't want him to see this chick again she sounds like trouble.

Sorry if that didnt make much sense,i suck at explaining.

[*xcaitlinx*]

um wow.i didnt even realise people had replied to it.Uronacid,that was uncalled for and no i'm not wondering if I should worry because of what my sister said.I think she was saying that because of what her boyfriend treated her like.He cheated on her,hit her and everything and she loved him that much that she kept taking him back.They have a kid,but now he is dead because he died from Cancer last year.I think she was just thinking back about it and thinking of me and hoping he's not doing anything.

I admit I do get a bit shitty when he tells me his going out.I just worry about htat he'll end up with some girl.He says to me he doesn't dance with other girls he just dances with his friends(not dirty dancing though) and that's fine...but I still can't help but worry.We were fighting fora gs about a week or so ago now and it was a long weekend..I said to him heh stupid me for hoping we'd spend the whole weekend together.And he said who said I didnt want to?And I said you would of said if you wanted to...Then he said well if you had mentioned it then I would of said yes..And I said I shouldn't have to mention it..Anyway he said he wanted to spend the whole weekend with me.So we did.And we went to a party together on the Saturday night.
I just spose I have to learn to accept it..i'm just a bit insecure so i'm worried about the whole club scene.
I mean I found out that him and his riend met this rich girl and she bought them drinks and she hugged my boyfriend and said I like you.Even though she has a boyfriend and new that he had a girlfriend.And she said to him he was cute.They were just friends but how they met is that him and his friend were just asking them about something and the rich girl was with her two guy bestfriends and her boyfriend wasn't there.And so yeah they all ended up talking. I don't want him to see this chick again she sounds like trouble.

Sorry if that didnt make much sense,i suck at explaining.

well i'm glad that you worked everything out with your boyfriend...but that whole "rich girl" thing is kind of shady. do you know whether or not he told her that he has a girlfriend..or did he continue to talk to her? if i were you, i'd find out the whole truth about that situation.