Non Supportive Parents |
Non Supportive Parents |
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So, are your parents the type that don't appreciate anything that you do? Or don't support what you want to do or be when you grow up? My parents are.
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*Uronacid* |
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OMG, seriously... this sounds bad, but you need to disobey your parents... if you're 16-18 years old, and nothing you do makes your parents see the good in you.
STOP DOING THINGS!! Make them realize how much you do... START f**king UP!!! Don't be perfect for them. Jeez, Parents who are too controlling are so rediculous. It's parents like that who limit their kids abilities to do/become all they can do/be. My parents used to have these high expecations of me, and they used to tell me all this crap about what i would become when i was older... The more i listened to their crap the more frustrated i became, until one day i just went crazy.... I disobeyed them in every way imaginable and i didn't lie to them about anything... At first it was pretty difficult, but after a while they loosened up... I got punished alot, but it was totally worth it. I began experiencing life on my own... At first I let my grades drop... i scored 90's-100's on all my exams and shit, but i didn't do any homework. I started controlling my grades so i would get exactly 69 in every class. I thought it was pretty funny, but they didn't. Yeah, my parents were pretty pissed, and they told me I couldn't hang out with my friends. It wasn't like I could hang out with them anyways. So, i really didn't give a shit... Their expectations of me dropped a whole bunch... sounds horrible, but when I got good grades they started praising me, and when I started working towards something. They encouraged it! here is the formula: Parents have expectations that are too high>You do great!>No praise Parents have expectations that are low>You do great!>PRAISE!!!! If you're really looking for praise and acceptance, and you have balls. START DOING EVERYTHING YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO DO! Just don't do anything ilegal. ;) Exptra rules: -Don't do things that will land you in Juvinile Dentetion Centers -Don't do things that are illegal WARNING THIS WILL LAND YOU IN A WHOLE SHIT LOAD OF TROUBLE!!!! BEFORE DOING ANYTHING STATED ABOVE PLEASE REALIZE THAT YOUR PARENTS WILL GROUND YOU AND DISCIPLINE YOU. IF YOU WISH TO ACCOMPLISH THE DESIRED GOAL (HAVING YOUR PARENTS LET LOOSE) DO NOT LET PUNISHMENTS EFFECT YOU. INSTEAD ACCEPT THEM AND REALIZE YOU ARE TAKING THE PUNISHMENT FOR THE DESIRED GOAL. EVNTUALLY YOUR PARENTS WILL GIVE UP. |
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