...the story of my life... |
...the story of my life... |
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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 426,423 ![]() |
hi everyone...
today i would like to share my life story with all of you. i'm a male from malaysia. basically i suffered a lot in my young age. im 19 years old now. my family is very complicated. my father is an alcohol addicted. i dont know where is him now.. i have 1 younger sister, 1 elder sister and 1 elder brother. 1 elder sister passed away in a accident when i was 17 years old. my elder brother married a woman and settled in singapore. he dont want to return home or help family. my elder sister married and settled but not contribute to my family. now im staying with my mother 50 years old and my younger sister studying in nearby school. im working in a nearby factory. im afford all family expenses, house rental, foods, electricity, water bill, sister school fare and a lot. actually i supposed to continue my studies after i'd finished my high school. but as my family situation, i'd started to work. but my current job consider a good offer. but unfortunately this company is very unstable. now i'm wonder a lot how i'm going to afford my family.. and now im love a co-worker. she was a foreign girl. we love each other a lot. she is the one who can share my tears.... and i'd never been happy in my teenage.. everyday a new problem... in my family.. actually i had a plan to work in foreign country to earn more money so that i can afford my family. but unfortunately the chances less. now i'm very confused... i dont know how im gonna build up my sister life... take care my mother... buy a house...afford family.. besides my personal life.. how should i build my career....? what i should plan...? what i should do....shouldn't do...? please advise me... and if you think you can help me... please tell me.. im very confused on my future... |
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Member ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 16 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,106 ![]() |
hi,
I'm really touched by your story and I really appreciate your courage. Life is really very beautiful and mean as well. Sometimes there is so much suffering that we feel miserable. But I'm sure that you must have felt very peaceful once you were successful in doing something for your Mom and sister and overcomed an obstacle. Try to attend part - time classes while working and continue your studies. That's very important. Try to analyse what you are good at, where you would like to see yourself and pick up a course which has a lot of scope. I'm sure that you love your girl friend, however make sure it's going to be a long lasting relationship, because its very easy to fall for affection during difficult times.I wish you all the best, keep your patience and courage and be honest. Hard work is always rewarded if not now, later.Please never lose hope. In case you want to talk to me, you can always mail me. your well wisher. |
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