I think I lost my friend.. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Options

[molly_lullaby]

Hi guys! Here’s my problem:
When I finished primary school I went to a different school and actually all my classmates went to different middle schools so we were “separated”. I went to my new school with my friend Sarah.
In primary school I had many guy friends but now I don’t have coz my new classmates are jerks..
But I keep in touch with my old classmates and I remain close with my guy friends. I call them, we text each other and sometimes we go out. Every year in June, we meet altogether and we are together for the whole day. This year I was looking forward to going to this meeting, as I would have the chance to spend time with my best guy friend Ross.

But this year he wasn’t like he’s always with me.. We cuddled a few times but he chose to be with Sarah all the time. Sarah’s cousin goes to the same school Ross goes so I guess they had things to discuss but I really can’t explain Ross’s behaviour, as we always used to talk about everything.. Plus Ross has a girlfriend, so he wasn’t talking to Sarah because he likes her or something like that.. and they r not friends at all.

Ross and I used to have a really special friendship. We cuddled a lot, I knew all his secrets, he knew mine. He would call me and talk to me for everything he wanted for hours. About Harry Potter or about how he could approach this special girl he liked. We were like siblings. He knew exactly what to do to cheer me up, we went to the movies and he would even help me with my chores. Our friendship was magical the most perfect friendship ever!!!!!! He would protect me and fight with anyone that made me sad. We continued being super-close friends for the first year of middle school. But then Ross became extremely popular and I believed that I was happy with my new friends(actually I hate them now, they make me sad). So we started losing touch..

Now, we only text each other and most of the times he doesn’t reply to my messages. We meet at this meeting every summer I told u. And this year he acted the way he acted. The thing is that I felt so left out at the meeting.. I tried to get into their conversation but it was impossible. So I spent my time with my other old guy friends. I must admit that I felt a bit jealous but I felt even more depressed. I know I shouldn’t but it was tough.

The basic thing is that Ross has probably moved on. He got new friends and a new best female friend(that makes me sooooooooo sad..). But I DIDN’T. I DON’T LIKE MY NEW FRIENDS. I STILL CONSIDER Ross as my best guy friend but he doesn’t fell the same. So:
-What can I do to become again super close best friends with Ross? What can I do so he wants to be again best friends with me and he miss me tlike I miss him?
-Wdut of all this I told u? Any conclusions?

Please guys don’t say that he isn’t nice because he’s a great guy. And don’t tell me to move on and get a new guy friend. I love Ross so much and I miss him, HE WAS MY CLOSEST FRIEND. Gimme some advice I want so much to be again best friends with him. Thanks a lot!
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Molly

[PrincessAda]

Seems like you need to talk to him about it..