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[browneyedbeauty]

I'm the type of person who isn't shy nessicarily(sp) but i don't like to do anything out of the ordinary. i guess you could say i'm selfconcious in a way. so when it comes to guys i hate making the first move or doing anything spontanious(not too spontanious but like tell em i like em or something along those lines). is there anything i can do to change this or is it just the way i am?

i guess one thing i'm curious about is there is this guy i like who likes someone else and i guess i don't wanna give up without saying i put forth an effort. he used to like me but i kinda don't think i was flirty enough or something like that cause the girl hes into now is way different than me. i know i've done had my chance at it but i guess i want him to know without me going into this much detail. i've asked my friends about it and they've told me to call him, be more flirty, get someone to tell him i like him, and one just told me he was a butthole with a little different wording. has anyone been in a situation and did something about it. the only bad part about this whole thing is that we're getting outta school and so i won't see him for another 2 month ! anywho sorry so long but any advice???!!!

[rOckThISshYt]

well, you should relax, first and formost. second, you should empty your mind. say to yourself "okay. i can do this. i have one shot and if i don't take it now, i'm never going to have it again." then just go for it. that's the most i can tell you. i'm not usually the first to make a move, although i'm usually not afraid to. but when it comes down to it, i realize that we're not the only ones who are scared and self-consience. they are too, no matter how hard it is to believe. so keep that in mind when you think about your move. good luck and god speed. riiight.