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 Jun 17 2006, 06:20 PM
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 Hold my hand lets chase the sun  Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,942  |
yea i was just wondering what you guys think about arranged marriages? it doesn't happen as often ne more but in some countries they still do this
so what do u think about them? |
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Jun 18 2006, 07:48 AM
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 oink Group: Member Posts: 1,099 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,836 |
i think arrnaged marriages are not wrong or right. zome people who have arranged marriages grow to like each other,while some the arranged marriages didint run out to well..but it really depends..
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Jun 18 2006, 05:12 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(sw33t_rouge @ Jun 18 2006, 8:48 AM)  i think arrnaged marriages are not wrong or right. zome people who have arranged marriages grow to like each other,while some the arranged marriages didint run out to well..but it really depends.. How would you feel if your mom brang a boy to your home one day and said "Congrats! You're getting married tomorrow!"? Especially if you already have feelings for someone. They are wrong, but unfortunately, that's how some cultures do it. Taylor`` |
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Jun 18 2006, 05:52 PM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 18 2006, 6:12 PM) How would you feel if your mom brang a boy to your home one day and said "Congrats! You're getting married tomorrow!"? Especially if you already have feelings for someone. They are wrong, but unfortunately, that's how some cultures do it. Taylor`` My cousin had her marriage arranged and she fell in love with her husband after a few days (so she says). I've never seen her happier before, and just months before she was crying about her life ending. Not all arranged marriages fail. Most of the last generation in my family (the one before mine) had arranged marriages and they're all happy (except for two). It all depends on the person they got for you. If both are willing to cooperate in marriage then it will probably work and probably not. It's all in the chemistry! To be honest I wouldn't mind an arranged marriage. I trust my parents. Although I would prefer to find one myself. get what I mean? |
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Jun 18 2006, 06:40 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jun 18 2006, 6:52 PM) My cousin had her marriage arranged and she fell in love with her husband after a few days (so she says). I've never seen her happier before, and just months before she was crying about her life ending. Not all arranged marriages fail. Most of the last generation in my family (the one before mine) had arranged marriages and they're all happy (except for two). It all depends on the person they got for you. If both are willing to cooperate in marriage then it will probably work and probably not. It's all in the chemistry! To be honest I wouldn't mind an arranged marriage. I trust my parents. Although I would prefer to find one myself. get what I mean? I'm not saying they don't always work out. I'm just saying it's wrong. At least in my view. Taylor`` |
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luvnhate arranged marriages Jun 17 2006, 06:20 PM
Angelina Taylor Entirely wrong!!! Why not let people f... Jun 17 2006, 06:44 PM
NinjaxMageLayouts QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 17 2006, 6:44... Jun 17 2006, 08:44 PM marzipan i think it's wrong. people should be able to c... Jun 17 2006, 08:46 PM This Confession people can fall in love and get married exactly ho... Jun 18 2006, 07:13 AM icy_wonderland QUOTE(sw33t_rouge @ Jun 18 2006, 8:48 PM)... Jul 7 2006, 04:10 AM Steph Chan totally against them. Jun 18 2006, 05:42 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK ^Well there are many things wrong in the world. I ... Jun 18 2006, 06:43 PM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jun 18 2006, 7... Jun 18 2006, 07:54 PM NinjaxMageLayouts I agree with taylor all the way.Sure some cultures... Jun 18 2006, 06:44 PM Ajmalhuuss I am pakistani and in my country over 80% of the m... Jun 20 2006, 09:00 AM x_lilvietdreamer_x what if you arranged to marry someone that you did... Jun 20 2006, 10:04 AM zomgznoway I agree with ajmalhuuss. I'm Indian, and I... Jun 26 2006, 03:51 PM ECD & C0 QUOTEIn no way does it mean your parents pick some... Jun 26 2006, 03:52 PM Paradox of Life I don't think marriage may be forced in Americ... Jun 26 2006, 03:57 PM NinjaxMageLayouts QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Jun 26 2006, 3:57... Jul 2 2006, 02:54 AM Paradox of Life QUOTE(NinjaxMageLayouts @ Jul 2 2006, 2:5... Jul 4 2006, 02:27 PM NinjaxMageLayouts QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Jul 4 2006, 2:27 ... Jul 4 2006, 04:05 PM Paradox of Life QUOTE(NinjaxMageLayouts @ Jul 4 2006, 4:0... Jul 7 2006, 12:49 AM iRock cB QUOTE(NinjaxMageLayouts @ Jul 2 2006, 3:5... Jul 4 2006, 05:49 PM NinjaxMageLayouts QUOTE(iRock cB @ Jul 4 2006, 5:49 PM) Bef... Jul 5 2006, 01:42 AM iRock cB Statement:QUOTE(NinjaxMageLayouts @ Jul 5 200... Jul 6 2006, 01:36 AM Chad_man QUOTE(iRock cB @ Jul 4 2006, 3:49 PM) Bef... Jul 6 2006, 10:13 AM iRock cB QUOTE(Chad_man @ Jul 6 2006, 11:13 AM) U... Jul 6 2006, 10:30 PM rawtheekuh. ^dude, wth. did you even bother taking the time to... Jul 2 2006, 07:33 PM NinjaxMageLayouts QUOTE(rawtheekuh. @ Jul 2 2006, 7:33 PM) ... Jul 4 2006, 02:50 AM iRock cB I think it's wrong but I'm sure the ugly g... Jul 3 2006, 02:44 PM Spiritual Winged Aura omg.
it happen between my asian parents, mom and ... Jul 6 2006, 02:56 AM monkieluver12 I think its both right and wrong in a sense, it de... Jul 6 2006, 03:42 AM icy_wonderland I think it's REALLY wrong. i think marriage i... Jul 6 2006, 10:41 PM skinnyminnie i think that the parents get security in the knowl... Jul 6 2006, 11:52 PM Angelina Taylor It just.. it defeats the purpose of life (accordin... Jul 7 2006, 12:42 PM iRock cB QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jul 7 2006, 1:42 ... Jul 7 2006, 06:56 PM vandiee my parents got arranged.
and they're fine. so... Jul 7 2006, 04:31 PM Angelina Taylor ^ Good, I'm glad. Jul 7 2006, 07:39 PM Listelle Love may be missing in an arranged marriage, but w... Jul 8 2006, 10:06 PM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(Listelle @ Jul 8 2006, 11:06 PM) Lo... Jul 8 2006, 10:47 PM Listelle ^Actually, I'm not.
Maybe its because my fami... Jul 8 2006, 11:09 PM Angelina Taylor ^
Just because you want to marry someone you love... Jul 9 2006, 08:30 AM priyas i don't like them.
Neither do my parents. SO... Jul 9 2006, 09:44 AM Paradox of Life ^ Please keep in mind that this is a debate. Eithe... Jul 9 2006, 01:23 PM |
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