its not right to sey i love ya if you dont mean it, is it?x_X Options

[NgocQuyen]

ok...so i have a friend...and like...her and her bf have been goin out fer 3 months.... they rarely get to see eachother but its ok because they love eachother right?and thas all that matters but outa tha blue...he str8 break ups with her...and he's all like...'tha long distance thing isnt werking for me' omigosh!!if he really LOVED her like he sed he did...that wouldnt matter would it?! come on pplz....ya gotta give me some luvin....=] atleast tell mehh if im rite or wrong omigosh...seriously...when my friend told me they broke up...i cryed....they were so0o0o cute together!!!!

[twistedfate]

of course people shouldn't say i love you if they don't mean it. but if they do, that is completely their decision to make. if they decide to go through with that desicion then they should know the consequenses that follow after they say 'i love you'.

different people have different tendencies. some can say ' i love you' more easily than others can. but then again many people tend to keep the words to themselves and express their feelings otherwise.

personally, i feel that life is just that life. it isn't here just to glide through or not to be taken too seriously. it is like on a live let live basis. you should enjoy it and live every single day to its absolute fullest. one of my philosophies is that you should fall in love as many times and as often as you can.

but you have to keep in mind that love isn't the same for every one person or in every relationship. in some relationships you may have a commitment with a person so strong that when you actually say it, you mean it completely, and with the whole of your heart. or you could have a relationship where the 'i love yous' are taken lightly and thrown around. but it is the person's own choice if that is the way you want to handle things.

love varies from person to person.