Guy Friends, Feeling a bit uncomfortable. |
Guy Friends, Feeling a bit uncomfortable. |
| *Steph Chan* |
Jun 11 2006, 03:43 PM
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So I have a few good guy friends. Several actually. & I can't help but get the feeling that some of them like me. A couple actually I know like me for a fact. & others drop hints.. like joking around about getting married & stuff. It makes me feel really uncomfortable. & I don't know what I can do to make myself feel comfortable around them without confronting them & making myself seem conceited if they don't like me?
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Jun 16 2006, 12:45 PM
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o..i have the same problem..but the guys never really told me they liked me..it was more like..i got the feeling and then their friends told me they did ..and i really dont feel comfortable either..b/c i dont like them back...but since they never really came up to me and admitted it..i cant really go up to them and be like..i dont like you..b/c itd sound conceited if the guy never admitted it to you.. its such a hard situation to be in.. what i usually did was once i found out they had a crush on me..id just send them signs that i dont like them.. not hanging out w/ them as much..not being as friendly as before.. which is bad b/c they are still my friends =\ i just really dont know how to tell them i dont like them..
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Steph Chan Guy Friends Jun 11 2006, 03:43 PM
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This Confession All you can do is be yourself in these situations.... Jun 11 2006, 11:45 PM
SimplicityGirl Well just tell them that what they're doing is... Jun 12 2006, 12:15 AM
Steph Chan ^ I do both of those things. I am a pretty sarcast... Jun 12 2006, 10:11 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b Maybe your "sarcasm" isnt working. Telli... Jun 12 2006, 10:37 PM
anqie Oh dear, i'm quite in this situation too. This... Jun 12 2006, 10:40 PM
Steph Chan Oh no no no. Don't get me wrong. I most certai... Jun 12 2006, 10:47 PM
PerfectAdvice when you say you have alot of guy friends that jok... Jun 12 2006, 11:01 PM
Steph Chan QUOTE(PerfectAdvice @ Jun 13 2006, 12:01 ... Jun 12 2006, 11:10 PM
nikkkkki I'm in that type of situation, and I have a bo... Jun 12 2006, 11:57 PM
nightowl89 Just be totally serious at least once and say ... Jun 13 2006, 10:55 AM
xbabyboo The ones you want to be with..ask them out or some... Jun 16 2006, 12:47 AM![]() ![]() |