Apparently, I'm clingy and annoying, Options

[BryMonster]

Hey guys! I've been gone for a while. But I'm back, full-time now. Anyways, to get to the point of my story. I remember I told you guys that I asked out a girl and that we dated for about a month. Just now, she started being the biggest and most stuck up butthead ever. I will refrain from using bitch, because she doesn't deserve that, yet. Unless she continues doing what she's doing. Anyway back to the story, I usually leave my pet with her when my family goes out on vacation because she takes care of it with no problem. Everything seemed all good, except for when the day I went to pick up my cat.

I called her about 5 times because I wanted my cat back. My parents just drove from New York to North Carolina so they were already tired and I wanted to get this over with. So after a while of calling, I thought "Maybe if I get there and she's not home, her mom will let me take my cat..because I mean, it's my cat." So I drove over there with my mom because I don't have my license yet. When I get there, she's walking out of the house. Getting ready to leave somewhere. To her brother's championship baseball game and they were already late. And I told her, "Can I just get my cat? It'll take about 5 seconds." And she replied with a no and my mother and I left.

Eventually I got my cat the next day. But there was a complete silence while we were bring down the stuff into the car. She didn't even start a conversation with my dad and she always does that. So I instantly get irritated and just drive off. She didn't even start a conversation with me. Just a "Hi" & "Bye". So I tell her bestfriend, whom I trusted because she was like my bestfriend and I vented to her. I come to find out that she tells my ex. Then my ex tells me I'm the most annoying 15 year older she had ever met and that I'm very clingy. She said "I would hang out with you for 2 minutes and I'd already be sick of you" Etc. Mean, negative things like that.

I've cut connections with both of those girls.
But I don't know what do now.

[*This Confession*]

Well if she is in a relationship with you then she should care about the same things you care about. [ to a extent of course]
I mean aparently you don't want someone thats stuck up and doesn't want to be nice and give you your freaking cat back. hah. and other things that irked you. I mean your young theres plenty of people out there. Go find someone new that isn't stuck up and you enjoy being around and don't come to us ready to call her a bitch.


Also, her brother is her family. I mean she has all rights to going to that over your rugby game. Your her boyfriend and that was her brother there is a fine line over boyfriend and family.

Family is going to be there no matter what.