Apparently, I'm clingy and annoying, Options

[BryMonster]

Hey guys! I've been gone for a while. But I'm back, full-time now. Anyways, to get to the point of my story. I remember I told you guys that I asked out a girl and that we dated for about a month. Just now, she started being the biggest and most stuck up butthead ever. I will refrain from using bitch, because she doesn't deserve that, yet. Unless she continues doing what she's doing. Anyway back to the story, I usually leave my pet with her when my family goes out on vacation because she takes care of it with no problem. Everything seemed all good, except for when the day I went to pick up my cat.

I called her about 5 times because I wanted my cat back. My parents just drove from New York to North Carolina so they were already tired and I wanted to get this over with. So after a while of calling, I thought "Maybe if I get there and she's not home, her mom will let me take my cat..because I mean, it's my cat." So I drove over there with my mom because I don't have my license yet. When I get there, she's walking out of the house. Getting ready to leave somewhere. To her brother's championship baseball game and they were already late. And I told her, "Can I just get my cat? It'll take about 5 seconds." And she replied with a no and my mother and I left.

Eventually I got my cat the next day. But there was a complete silence while we were bring down the stuff into the car. She didn't even start a conversation with my dad and she always does that. So I instantly get irritated and just drive off. She didn't even start a conversation with me. Just a "Hi" & "Bye". So I tell her bestfriend, whom I trusted because she was like my bestfriend and I vented to her. I come to find out that she tells my ex. Then my ex tells me I'm the most annoying 15 year older she had ever met and that I'm very clingy. She said "I would hang out with you for 2 minutes and I'd already be sick of you" Etc. Mean, negative things like that.

I've cut connections with both of those girls.
But I don't know what do now.

[*This Confession*]

She does sound kind of stuck up. I mean if you drove all that way and wanted your cat back and i was walking out the door I would walk back and give you your cat. Simple as that. sheesh, some people.

Anyway talk to her about it I mean if your aparently clingy and stuff and didn't hear it from the right person then get them to say it to your face. So you can ask the questions about it. Like how are you so clingy. blah blah blah

Just ignoring her and everyone else isn't going to solve anything.

but your young
you could just move on
go find someone more understanding
hah I don't get how your clingy though.
in all of that i didn't hear anything that went along with you being clingy unless it was with your cat..