20 yr old, with complex personality...., never had a real bf Options

[lil_blue04]

ok, so i'm 20 and never had a boyfriend before. And i think that the reason is because I just don't know how to act around guys. Whenever I meet a guy I like, I start acting weird around him and it's like if i have a multiple personality disorder or something. My best friend tells me that If a guy is really meant for me then he would just adapt to my craziness, but i think that maybe i should just try to change this flaw of mine. what do you guys think?

(P.S. and by acting weird around them i mean, i'm nice to a guy one minute and then the next i'm critisizing him and even making fun of him. Then the next minute we can be just hanging out and having a great time and the next minute i'm shy and avoiding him all together. yeah i know, i'm weird! LOL)

[*This Confession*]

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wow I think one other person could you give you good advice on this. But personally I agree with your friends, you shouldn't change yourself. And eventually a guy will come around that will accept you for you. Although in another sense I do think you should atleast get this problem under control. I don't know exactly how you could come about doing it though. I mean you need to start thinking before you speak thats one thing. Think over what your about to say and see if it is really what you want to say to this person to ruin a good moment. I'll come back and say something else probably later.. my brain is kind of messed up at the moment. [its slow or something] hah idk.

Maybe search around on google or something
for like personality change.. or complex personality.
And see if there is any other forums that have covered this topic before.
Or some M.D. has written about it. Thats what I usually do if i ever have a problem..
This is usually the last place i come to list my problem =X of course ive never have put a problem up here.