Guy Friends, Feeling a bit uncomfortable. |
| *Steph Chan* |
 Jun 11 2006, 03:43 PM
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So I have a few good guy friends. Several actually. & I can't help but get the feeling that some of them like me. A couple actually I know like me for a fact. & others drop hints.. like joking around about getting married & stuff. It makes me feel really uncomfortable. & I don't know what I can do to make myself feel comfortable around them without confronting them & making myself seem conceited if they don't like me?
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Jun 12 2006, 10:37 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig.  Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Maybe your "sarcasm" isnt working. Telling them you would be perfect together with an angry face doesnt exactly tell them 'I dont like you.'
Quit flirting back with them and be friends, and just friends. I have a lot of guy friends who like me, sounds concieted but heeey I do. I just let them know straight up i dont like them. When they ask for my number i say no. When they ask me out i say no. When they persistently bother me about them liking me and wanting to get with me or making comments about my body or how im the perfect girl for them i BLUNTLY say No. I dont like you. Stop being subtle, cos they obviously arent getting it. |
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Steph Chan Guy Friends Jun 11 2006, 03:43 PM
mona lisa Moved to Relationships Jun 11 2006, 03:44 PM This Confession All you can do is be yourself in these situations.... Jun 11 2006, 11:45 PM SimplicityGirl Well just tell them that what they're doing is... Jun 12 2006, 12:15 AM Steph Chan ^ I do both of those things. I am a pretty sarcast... Jun 12 2006, 10:11 PM anqie Oh dear, i'm quite in this situation too. This... Jun 12 2006, 10:40 PM Steph Chan Oh no no no. Don't get me wrong. I most certai... Jun 12 2006, 10:47 PM PerfectAdvice when you say you have alot of guy friends that jok... Jun 12 2006, 11:01 PM
Steph Chan QUOTE(PerfectAdvice @ Jun 13 2006, 12:01 ... Jun 12 2006, 11:10 PM nikkkkki I'm in that type of situation, and I have a bo... Jun 12 2006, 11:57 PM nightowl89 Just be totally serious at least once and say ... Jun 13 2006, 10:55 AM xbabyboo The ones you want to be with..ask them out or some... Jun 16 2006, 12:47 AM ecargnmyst o..i have the same problem..but the guys never rea... Jun 16 2006, 12:45 PM |
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