Can a guy and a girl be close friends? |
 Jun 3 2006, 06:18 PM
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Can a guy and a girl be close friends without making it something more? Ya know, can a guy and a girl be close friends without one liking the other, or both liking each other, and turning that into a relationship?
...because from what I've seen at school so far, all close guy-girl friendship turns into relationships...so just wondering. |
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Jun 3 2006, 06:37 PM
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I think it's a bit difficult to maintain, but it's definitely possible. But I understand what you mean; a LOT of my close guy/girl friends have turned into something more.
When two people spend a lot of time together, talking about their deepest secrets and entrusting everything with that person, it's hard for feelings to not develop. Usually they come naturally. |
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Jun 3 2006, 07:19 PM
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I don't think a guy and a girl being close friends is the only thing that will happen. Unless the guy is gay or vice versa. Spending a lot of time cause other peopel to think the guy and girl have soem sort of relationship. & You know peopel keep askign and then feeligns develop. That's just one of the ways how guys and girls cant' just be friends. Cause i know lol ..
QUOTE(gigiopolis @ Jun 3 2006, 4:37 PM)  I think it's a bit difficult to maintain, but it's definitely possible. But I understand what you mean; a LOT of my close guy/girl friends have turned into something more. When two people spend a lot of time together, talking about their deepest secrets and entrusting everything with that person, it's hard for feelings to not develop. Usually they come naturally. Yeah soemtiems it does jsut come naturally too. :] |
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Jun 11 2006, 05:25 PM
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 ||Leon/Silent W[hisper]|| Anime Freak Group: Member Posts: 152 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 257,387 |
QUOTE(AzNxBaBi @ Jun 3 2006, 7:19 PM) I don't think a guy and a girl being close friends is the only thing that will happen. Unless the guy is gay or vice versa. Spending a lot of time cause other peopel to think the guy and girl have soem sort of relationship. & You know peopel keep askign and then feeligns develop. That's just one of the ways how guys and girls cant' just be friends. Cause i know lol .. Yeah soemtiems it does jsut come naturally too. :] I disagree.i mean im 100% straight and my best friend for life is a girl.And the girl who i used to like,me and her are still close friends. |
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because im one of those peop... Jun 11 2006, 02:16 AM iAcinom Yesssss!
I'm close with tons of guys at my... Jun 11 2006, 05:18 PM xlilaznchickx of course it is possible for a guy and a girl to b... Jun 11 2006, 08:57 PM My Cinderella. Of course it's possible. It's possible to ... Jun 12 2006, 03:11 PM Mells-Star I think that a guy and a girl can be close friends... Jun 12 2006, 08:30 PM azn_shortie of course it's possible.
at least I think it i... Jun 13 2006, 05:28 AM annabel_x Yes, if you can keep it that way. Jun 13 2006, 10:25 PM tomgurl ABSO-POZZILOOTLEE
..lol...yea its totally cool
2 ... Jun 13 2006, 10:42 PM Sweetthing_707 I think you can be close friends.
I have alot of ... Jun 14 2006, 04:38 AM |
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