ah. paranoia.., how to deal = [ |
 Jun 4 2006, 05:47 PM
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 roosternamedingo.  Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926  |
so..my relationship is perfect. Well, of course not perfect but pretty close to it. I'm happy, he's happy, and we love each other. The main glitch:
I overanalyze everything...I worry that he might like someone else, fall-inlove with someone else etc...Then, I question my feelings. "What if I stop liking him" and all that, which is stupid because that just proves that I do like him..so I'm contradicting myself. But still, I'm always scared about something. I'm always afraid that something may go wrong.  The weird part: When I'm with him, I'm not scared at all. No worries. Nothing. How do I stop being scared? Because it seems to me like it's just something that just comes. I can't control it. I think about it then boom, I'm afraid. Help?
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Jun 4 2006, 06:54 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
I don't understand why people always start with "we are so perfect" or "everything is so perfect" or "_____ perfect" then talk about problems. If the relationship is so perfect, why are there problems?
Just let things flow naturally. You're only 14, why worry about things like this? If you two break up, big deal. You'll find someone else, life will go on. So what if you stop liking him? There are other people out in the world. Don't make your relationship your life. |
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Jun 9 2006, 08:09 PM
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 banana ham! Group: Member Posts: 661 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,050 |
QUOTE(Chii @ Jun 4 2006, 7:54 PM)  I don't understand why people always start with "we are so perfect" or "everything is so perfect" or "_____ perfect" then talk about problems. If the relationship is so perfect, why are there problems? Just let things flow naturally. You're only 14, why worry about things like this? If you two break up, big deal. You'll find someone else, life will go on. So what if you stop liking him? There are other people out in the world. Don't make your relationship your life. I agree with her. I am 14 myself, and I was in a "puppy love" relationship a few months ago. I was together with my guy for about what 13 months? and.. like the usual stuff everything was going great then later on into the relationship the guy cheats, got my heart broken blah blah... Anywhoos, my point is just chill.. and whatever happens, happens. Like you say if yall love each other then it doesn`t matter what goes wrong ya`ll can work it out TOGETHER. right? 
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Jun 10 2006, 09:24 PM
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roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
QUOTE(doork @ Jun 9 2006, 9:09 PM) I agree with her. I am 14 myself, and I was in a "puppy love" relationship a few months ago. I was together with my guy for about what 13 months? and.. like the usual stuff everything was going great then later on into the relationship the guy cheats, got my heart broken blah blah... Anywhoos, my point is just chill.. and whatever happens, happens. Like you say if yall love each other then it doesn`t matter what goes wrong ya`ll can work it out TOGETHER. right? yeah.. Anyway..I've been improving..I recently learned how to wave away my worries and instead concentrate on the good aspects of the relationship..I still worry a bit at times but it's ok. So..uh..problem solved? 
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