love become distance? |
love become distance? |
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my girlfriend moved out of town for the summer. She is working somewhere in virginia. She told me we'll keep in touch and stuffs but we havn't talk at all lately. I tried to call her and she seems like she's busy. Last saturday she told me that she is going to go to a club down there but then i told her, i don't really want her to go. she's like u should trust me. I don't know if she's busy at least she should call me for 15minutes to talk with me for a day? I tried to call her but she's like i'll call you tonight and havn't still today. I miss her like crazy, what should i do?!?
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i'm sorry to hear about your girlfriend.
it seems like she's drifting from you. she's not making an effort to call you. 1 minute out of her 'busy' schedule would not hurt to just have her reassure you and say that she misses you and can't wait to see you again. she's doing so much partying and not even thinking twice about what she's doing. i would feel the same way if my boyfriend did that to me. i'd be SO pissed off. relationships take 2 people. 2 people need to make effort, it's just not 1 person. maybe you can try to arrange a time during the summer when you can visit her. or if not visit, then have a serious talk on the phone or something. ask her if she still wants what you want. maybe you should just end it. and at the end of the summer when she comes back, you can go on from there and both of you can decide what you want to do. if you don't end things, with all the partying she has a possibilty of cheating on you. |
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