I wish I were more outgoing... |
 Jun 6 2006, 10:52 AM
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I am way too shy to even talk to my own family and way too cautious to make friends. I thought of changing my personality into becoming more of an outgoing person, but everyone else says that is changing who i am. well no one wants to be the shy one in the corner with no friends to talk to 24/7, and quite frankly it makes my life boring.
How do I overcome shyness to become more of a "friendly" person? |
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| *Steph Chan* |
Jun 10 2006, 09:02 AM
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I know too many people like this. & I have to admit that sometimes I'm shy as well, I don't like starting conversations or anything like that.. but I have random spurrs of confidence.
If you happen to overhear kids talking about something that interests too as well, jump in, what's it gonna hurt? Try to find kids that will accept who you are, or who seem to at least. I have so many differences with my friends, but we still all get along. I think the biggest problem with shyness is fear. Fear that someone will make fun of you, or not like you, not accept you. It all lies in the insecurities. I say you find yourself first, find the good qualities in you that you should learn to love. |
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fever1 I wish I were more outgoing... Jun 6 2006, 10:52 AM
Uronacid it sounds lik your in highschool, and your board b... Jun 6 2006, 11:25 AM This Confession ah-ha someone like me!
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I hate my legs. But i do... Jun 7 2006, 11:54 AM lyin_in_wait swallow your nervousness and laugh....smile a whol... Jun 10 2006, 08:08 AM Babii_BoA hmm to overcome shyness, you should introduce your... Jun 10 2006, 10:09 AM jeSs1cA i used to be really shy when i was younger. it see... Jun 10 2006, 10:36 AM You deny me! I agree. I used to be shy also, and totally ahte ... Jun 10 2006, 02:45 PM deadgiveaway It's a good thing to want to improve oneself, ... Jun 10 2006, 06:55 PM lalalaLANUH Ah someone like me.
I don't think that's c... Jun 10 2006, 07:22 PM Birt Wow...you and I have pretty much the same personal... Jun 17 2006, 01:22 AM
sadolakced acid simple things to remember:
1- don't worry abo... Jun 17 2006, 02:13 AM |
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