love problem!!!, =( |
love problem!!!, =( |
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ok so i first started having a crush on this guy who's popular at my skool... we never reli talked much except that he wud look at me a lot... so i got confused... but now im even more confused. thers this guy i hav added on msn for a long time n we talk sometimes. but this past week, we've been talking more n more. he always makes fun of me about this guy who i dont even like so i make fun of him back by saying he likes my best friend b/c my best friend really DOES like him. so then one day, he gave me his phone # n told me to call him. i gave him mine. we talked on the phone for like an hour for that day. that happened just a few dayz ago. then we never talked on the phone but we wud talk on msn everyday and do webcam. but i alwayz hafta start the convo. it doesn't seem like he doesn't wanna talk to me cuz everytime i say hi on msn we talk for a very long time. so then how come he never says hi to me first? n y do i wanna see n talk to him so much? do i like him too? do i like the popular guy AND him??? i dont even have the popular guy's msn n we don't talk alot but i kno that i like to look at him a lot. maybe b/c he's good looking??? i can't like the guy i always talk to on msn cuz my best friend likes him!!!! wut to do wut to do... so wut i wanna figure out is, do i like the popular guy or the other guy? does the other guy like me? im confused n sad!!! =(
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![]() The BossHog ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 410,621 ![]() |
What you need to do is, not classify any guy (or girl for this matter) in to a group such as popular...ghetto...hot...ect. When you do this...your giving yourself stupid reasons to be thinking of the person. THese reasons can often come between you and your true judgement...True judgement meaning...being able to see the person for themself, or how they come across towards others. Always got to make sure there isnt too much of a difference with how they treat you and others...because if they are treating you like a God...and others like inferiors...this means A. They are unstable or B. They are only putting on a show for you, and thats not the real them.
Lastly, if your finding yourself liking more than one person. Stop likeing both, because niether will be someone you want to be with. helping quotes: -Looks good from a far, but is far from good. - Don't go for the person you wouldnt mind being with, go for the one you cant be without - if your ''gut'' is telling you something. its the truth. |
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