ah. paranoia.., how to deal = [ |
 Jun 4 2006, 05:47 PM
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 roosternamedingo.  Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926  |
so..my relationship is perfect. Well, of course not perfect but pretty close to it. I'm happy, he's happy, and we love each other. The main glitch:
I overanalyze everything...I worry that he might like someone else, fall-inlove with someone else etc...Then, I question my feelings. "What if I stop liking him" and all that, which is stupid because that just proves that I do like him..so I'm contradicting myself. But still, I'm always scared about something. I'm always afraid that something may go wrong.  The weird part: When I'm with him, I'm not scared at all. No worries. Nothing. How do I stop being scared? Because it seems to me like it's just something that just comes. I can't control it. I think about it then boom, I'm afraid. Help?
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Jun 6 2006, 01:54 PM
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because your father might have been abusive makes you want to go search out for someone to care for you like your father didnt do. maybe you just feel that he is the one that can care for you and make you feel safe. i ono but you might want to tone it down because it seems that you are on the road to becoming an obsessive girlfriend and guys dont want that. dont even think about what might happend in the future enjoy your moments now with him because if one day everything is over you will only have memories of yourself thinkin that everything would be over. your 14 your true love has not come yet...
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x0xIlmBx0x ah. paranoia.. Jun 4 2006, 05:47 PM
Kristinaa Everytime you have these thoughts, pinch yourself.... Jun 4 2006, 06:29 PM jennypie How long have you guys been dating for? Jun 4 2006, 06:53 PM Chii I don't understand why people always start wit... Jun 4 2006, 06:54 PM
x0xIlmBx0x QUOTE(Chii @ Jun 4 2006, 7:54 PM) I don... Jun 4 2006, 09:26 PM
doork QUOTE(Chii @ Jun 4 2006, 7:54 PM) I don... Jun 9 2006, 08:09 PM x0xIlmBx0x QUOTE(doork @ Jun 9 2006, 9:09 PM) I agre... Jun 10 2006, 09:24 PM nikkkkki Aw, I'm the same with my boyfriend. I think it... Jun 4 2006, 07:20 PM SimplicityGirl Are you sure you're not feeling insecure in yo... Jun 4 2006, 07:46 PM lyin_in_wait your always going to have those feelings reguardle... Jun 4 2006, 08:17 PM mipadi Back when I was in high school, I was pretty paran... Jun 4 2006, 09:50 PM xbabyboo You should just let everything go along and let wh... Jun 5 2006, 10:46 PM Uronacid did you have soemthing occur in you rlife that cau... Jun 6 2006, 12:20 AM x0xIlmBx0x QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jun 6 2006, 1:20 AM) did... Jun 6 2006, 01:48 PM This Confession well maybe you only think your over the whole dad ... Jun 6 2006, 01:59 PM Uronacid QUOTE(This Confession @ Jun 6 2006, 2:59 ... Jun 6 2006, 04:32 PM magicfann Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean ... Jun 6 2006, 05:49 PM x0xIlmBx0x I guess I am overanalayzing..it's annoying tho... Jun 7 2006, 05:33 AM This Confession well don't worry about it
If you sit there and... Jun 7 2006, 11:49 AM Brokenkingdom Well we can post all we like and you can ask for a... Jun 7 2006, 12:11 PM This Confession haha
i like Steves advice the most.
It makes me th... Jun 7 2006, 12:50 PM x0xIlmBx0x alright..thanks guys.. Jun 7 2006, 02:57 PM Cake. hey you live close to me! Jun 7 2006, 08:55 PM x0xIlmBx0x ^ lol..which part of MA are you in? Jun 9 2006, 05:31 PM Cake. QUOTE(x0xIlmBx0x @ Jun 9 2006, 6:31 PM) ^... Jun 9 2006, 08:58 PM Uronacid eveentually thAts what you will train yourself to ... Jun 10 2006, 10:16 PM |
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