love problem!!!, =( Options

[rainie8847]

ok so i first started having a crush on this guy who's popular at my skool... we never reli talked much except that he wud look at me a lot... so i got confused... but now im even more confused. thers this guy i hav added on msn for a long time n we talk sometimes. but this past week, we've been talking more n more. he always makes fun of me about this guy who i dont even like so i make fun of him back by saying he likes my best friend b/c my best friend really DOES like him. so then one day, he gave me his phone # n told me to call him. i gave him mine. we talked on the phone for like an hour for that day. that happened just a few dayz ago. then we never talked on the phone but we wud talk on msn everyday and do webcam. but i alwayz hafta start the convo. it doesn't seem like he doesn't wanna talk to me cuz everytime i say hi on msn we talk for a very long time. so then how come he never says hi to me first? n y do i wanna see n talk to him so much? do i like him too? do i like the popular guy AND him??? i dont even have the popular guy's msn n we don't talk alot but i kno that i like to look at him a lot. maybe b/c he's good looking??? i can't like the guy i always talk to on msn cuz my best friend likes him!!!! wut to do wut to do... so wut i wanna figure out is, do i like the popular guy or the other guy? does the other guy like me? im confused n sad!!! =(

[*Uronacid*]

for the pupolar guy:
Alright, you said this guy is popular... many times when a guy is popular he will be unattracted if the girl comes to him... It will make him bored. He probably gets attention for girls all the time, and honestly... if he really is that good looking you can't blame him... I personally believe that he liked you because you kept him wondering by catching him looking at you all the time. If you want to get with this guy.

-DON'T BE YOURSELF!!!

-QUIT TALKING TO HIM, AND LET HIM TALK TO YOU!!!!

-Don't say hi for a while unless he says hi first.

-Play hard to get... he probably likes that. When you catch him looking at you... look back and give him an inviting look, but don't act on it.... it will make him nuts.

-Don't worry about your friend, if he choses you... thats not your fualt

-DON'T BE YOURSELF
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for the shy guy:
shy people are generally more attracted to people who are outgoing... and i don't mean bubbley and stupid. I MEAN OUTGOING! people who talk about things that matter and things that bring about fun. Many shy people are attracted to people that are out going simpley because they admire that quality and wish they had it themselves. If you like the shy guy:

-Be yourself

-Talk to him about your day, and ask him about his day

-GET HIM TO TALK!!!! do this by showing that you care about what he's saying... :)

-Ask him for his number, and talk to him on the phone... if you feel like hes borring and want to get off... then go! DON"T EVER STAY ON THE PHONE LONGER THAN THE GUT FEELING SAYS YOU SHOULD... ugh, i hate it when i do that...

-BE YOURSELF!!!!
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In many cases, popular people have so many options they don't know what they want... many times, mystery is what leads them to a relationship becuase they don't know what they want and they are trying to find it.

Shy people want attention, but they don't want pitty. Being yourself is what works best, but becareful. Shy people don't takl much, and you don't know what they could be thinking... O_O


p.s. To anyone who's talking about love in this situation, get real.... they all just met eachother!