love problem!!!, =( |
love problem!!!, =( |
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ok so i first started having a crush on this guy who's popular at my skool... we never reli talked much except that he wud look at me a lot... so i got confused... but now im even more confused. thers this guy i hav added on msn for a long time n we talk sometimes. but this past week, we've been talking more n more. he always makes fun of me about this guy who i dont even like so i make fun of him back by saying he likes my best friend b/c my best friend really DOES like him. so then one day, he gave me his phone # n told me to call him. i gave him mine. we talked on the phone for like an hour for that day. that happened just a few dayz ago. then we never talked on the phone but we wud talk on msn everyday and do webcam. but i alwayz hafta start the convo. it doesn't seem like he doesn't wanna talk to me cuz everytime i say hi on msn we talk for a very long time. so then how come he never says hi to me first? n y do i wanna see n talk to him so much? do i like him too? do i like the popular guy AND him??? i dont even have the popular guy's msn n we don't talk alot but i kno that i like to look at him a lot. maybe b/c he's good looking??? i can't like the guy i always talk to on msn cuz my best friend likes him!!!! wut to do wut to do... so wut i wanna figure out is, do i like the popular guy or the other guy? does the other guy like me? im confused n sad!!! =(
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![]() dakishimetainoni... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 ![]() |
Maybe you just like being friends with this guy. Or maybe, subconsciously you're jealous of your best friend for some reason and you like secretly hanging this over her.
Either way, just let things flow naturally. He's just a guy. You and your best friend shouldn't let something so stupid ruin your friendship. I think you should tell her about this though... Gently tell her that you've been talking to him as just a friend. You'll never know if the popular guy likes you if you don't talk to him. Maybe he looks at you because you look at him first. People do that, when I feel someone's eyes on me, I immediately look back at them. |
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