ah. paranoia.., how to deal = [ |
 Jun 4 2006, 05:47 PM
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 roosternamedingo.  Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926  |
so..my relationship is perfect. Well, of course not perfect but pretty close to it. I'm happy, he's happy, and we love each other. The main glitch:
I overanalyze everything...I worry that he might like someone else, fall-inlove with someone else etc...Then, I question my feelings. "What if I stop liking him" and all that, which is stupid because that just proves that I do like him..so I'm contradicting myself. But still, I'm always scared about something. I'm always afraid that something may go wrong.  The weird part: When I'm with him, I'm not scared at all. No worries. Nothing. How do I stop being scared? Because it seems to me like it's just something that just comes. I can't control it. I think about it then boom, I'm afraid. Help?
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Jun 4 2006, 06:29 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Everytime you have these thoughts, pinch yourself. And hopefully by then you're skin will hurt so much from the pinching that you won't think these thoughts anymore.
You have to teach yourself not to analyze/think about it so much. It is hard, yes, but, you have to teach yourself. It's not something you read on the internet. |
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x0xIlmBx0x ah. paranoia.. Jun 4 2006, 05:47 PM
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doork QUOTE(Chii @ Jun 4 2006, 7:54 PM) I don... Jun 9 2006, 08:09 PM x0xIlmBx0x QUOTE(doork @ Jun 9 2006, 9:09 PM) I agre... Jun 10 2006, 09:24 PM nikkkkki Aw, I'm the same with my boyfriend. I think it... Jun 4 2006, 07:20 PM SimplicityGirl Are you sure you're not feeling insecure in yo... Jun 4 2006, 07:46 PM lyin_in_wait your always going to have those feelings reguardle... Jun 4 2006, 08:17 PM mipadi Back when I was in high school, I was pretty paran... Jun 4 2006, 09:50 PM xbabyboo You should just let everything go along and let wh... Jun 5 2006, 10:46 PM Uronacid did you have soemthing occur in you rlife that cau... Jun 6 2006, 12:20 AM x0xIlmBx0x QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jun 6 2006, 1:20 AM) did... Jun 6 2006, 01:48 PM iROCKYOURSOCKS because your father might have been abusive makes ... Jun 6 2006, 01:54 PM This Confession well maybe you only think your over the whole dad ... Jun 6 2006, 01:59 PM Uronacid QUOTE(This Confession @ Jun 6 2006, 2:59 ... Jun 6 2006, 04:32 PM magicfann Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean ... Jun 6 2006, 05:49 PM x0xIlmBx0x I guess I am overanalayzing..it's annoying tho... Jun 7 2006, 05:33 AM This Confession well don't worry about it
If you sit there and... Jun 7 2006, 11:49 AM Brokenkingdom Well we can post all we like and you can ask for a... Jun 7 2006, 12:11 PM This Confession haha
i like Steves advice the most.
It makes me th... Jun 7 2006, 12:50 PM x0xIlmBx0x alright..thanks guys.. Jun 7 2006, 02:57 PM Cake. hey you live close to me! Jun 7 2006, 08:55 PM x0xIlmBx0x ^ lol..which part of MA are you in? Jun 9 2006, 05:31 PM Cake. QUOTE(x0xIlmBx0x @ Jun 9 2006, 6:31 PM) ^... Jun 9 2006, 08:58 PM Uronacid eveentually thAts what you will train yourself to ... Jun 10 2006, 10:16 PM |
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