going to the doctor after losing your virginity, i need advice/help. |
 May 7 2006, 11:49 AM
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okay, so me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex (i dont know if this topic is "innapropriate" but im sorry if it is.), and we have done "foreplay" and stuff before. I have my physical in august, and we are most likely gonna have sex before then.
Im nervous because my doctor asks every year "have you had sex", and i dont know how to answer it this year. My doctor knows & is kinda friends with my mom, and i dont want her knowing im having sex because she wants me to wait until im married, but im completely in love with my boyfriend now, and ive already thought it through. what do i say to my doctor? i know i probably shouldnt lie, because they need to know incase you get an STD, STI, or get pregnant, but i really do not want her telling my mom. Should i tell my doctor i have (because i most likely will have sex before my physical) and if so, what should i say to her? |
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May 8 2006, 03:36 AM
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even if you lie to the doctor she'll know you had sex anyway.. so you my as well just tell her the truth.. and just ask her not to tell anyone.. although i do think if your parents ask then they do have to tell the truth.. |
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May 8 2006, 06:29 AM
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QUOTE(This Confession @ May 8 2006, 3:36 AM)  actually even if you lie to the doctor she'll know you had sex anyway.. so you my as well just tell her the truth.. and just ask her not to tell anyone.. although i do think if your parents ask then they do have to tell the truth.. LIES!! Your doctor doesnt check to see if you hymen is in tact during a physical. I'm sorry. Have you ever had a physical? Its not a gynocologist exam, its just a physical. They do weight and height and blood pressure and crap. To be honest, I wouldn't say a word. Youre at the age where a doctor can use her discretion on wether to tell your parents and I didnt want my parents to know either and im 20 years old. Unless you think you might be pregnant or have a disease id be quiet. and if you think you do have one of those issues, go to planned parenthood. They will respect your privacy. Just try not to have sex the week of your physical just in case there is a little spermicide or something left and it winds up in your urine sample. |
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May 14 2006, 12:04 PM
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QUOTE(starlette @ May 8 2006, 4:29 AM) LIES!! Your doctor doesnt check to see if you hymen is in tact during a physical. I'm sorry. Have you ever had a physical? Its not a gynocologist exam, its just a physical. They do weight and height and blood pressure and crap. To be honest, I wouldn't say a word. Youre at the age where a doctor can use her discretion on wether to tell your parents and I didnt want my parents to know either and im 20 years old. Unless you think you might be pregnant or have a disease id be quiet. and if you think you do have one of those issues, go to planned parenthood. They will respect your privacy. Just try not to have sex the week of your physical just in case there is a little spermicide or something left and it winds up in your urine sample. im not saying she will check my hymen. but when i go in there she always asks me, "have you had sex before?" |
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Jun 1 2006, 08:36 PM
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QUOTE(xo_rock @ May 14 2006, 12:04 PM) im not saying she will check my hymen. but when i go in there she always asks me, "have you had sex before?" WOAH CHICK TAKE A FRIGGIN CHILL PILL BEFORE YOU HAVE AN ANEURYSM!!! U dont know me, so dont shout. I wasnt directing that to you. I was correcting all the freaking MORONS in the thread who kept telling you the doctor will know whether you tell her or not which is not true. If this is how u act in an online forum you obviously arent mature to be screwin around. Wait a few years when you develop some maturity. And some temper control. Yellin at me like you me...sh*t. 
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Jun 2 2006, 03:35 PM
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QUOTE(starlette @ Jun 1 2006, 6:36 PM) WOAH CHICK TAKE A FRIGGIN CHILL PILL BEFORE YOU HAVE AN ANEURYSM!!! U dont know me, so dont shout. I wasnt directing that to you. I was correcting all the freaking MORONS in the thread who kept telling you the doctor will know whether you tell her or not which is not true. If this is how u act in an online forum you obviously arent mature to be screwin around. Wait a few years when you develop some maturity. And some temper control. Yellin at me like you me...sh*t. who said i was yelling? you cant yell online, get off the computer and get a life once in a while. QUOTE(Ox_Su`Zie @ Jun 2 2006, 11:19 AM) ^^^ your pretty i saw your myspace.  theres no telling a person if theyre in love or not. theres no age for love. Why wait two what`s the diffrence from right now and 2 years in 2 years she'll still love him right?  * How long have you been dating?  almost a year. |
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people change alot through h... May 8 2006, 08:42 PM Uronacid Also, before you say you love your boyfriend... as... May 8 2006, 09:30 PM iROCKYOURSOCKS QUOTE(Uronacid @ May 8 2006, 9:30 PM) Als... May 8 2006, 10:23 PM x_signhere To avoid telling the truth to the doctor, go get y... May 9 2006, 05:26 AM gponce10104 when he asks the question just say yes. you dont h... May 9 2006, 08:19 AM Evil_One1 Well, think about it. If you ever got pregnant or ... May 9 2006, 08:43 PM xbabyboo Tell your doctor to keep it between you and her/hi... May 10 2006, 08:02 PM Comik_knerd That's why you just listen to your parents and... May 12 2006, 10:33 AM Uronacid QUOTE(Comik_knerd @ May 12 2006, 11:33 AM... May 12 2006, 10:51 AM lalalaLANUH I don't have any first hand experience in this... May 12 2006, 05:19 PM Paradox of Life Um, don't lose your virginity if you don't... May 12 2006, 07:08 PM one_and_only you can tell your doctor you want your parent to w... May 13 2006, 01:55 PM killuh katy well one day it will come to you.
i went through i... May 13 2006, 10:19 PM DORKalicious if your so worried about it, just don't have s... May 14 2006, 02:26 PM somebody_toldmex QUOTE(DORKalicious @ May 14 2006, 2:26 PM... Jun 3 2006, 09:07 PM This Confession ^ yea i mostly agree with that
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if ur completely in love w/ ur b... Jun 1 2006, 10:59 PM Ox_Su`Zie ^^^ your pretty i saw your myspace.
QUOTE(x3_mr_... Jun 2 2006, 01:19 PM mizzkim haha... maybe you should do your physical first.. ... Jun 3 2006, 05:09 PM cheri_pi Yeah, there's doctor-patient confidentiality, ... Jun 4 2006, 08:24 AM Hannarr First off
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