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love become distance?
Spec_R
post May 29 2006, 10:03 PM
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my girlfriend moved out of town for the summer. She is working somewhere in virginia. She told me we'll keep in touch and stuffs but we havn't talk at all lately. I tried to call her and she seems like she's busy. Last saturday she told me that she is going to go to a club down there but then i told her, i don't really want her to go. she's like u should trust me. I don't know if she's busy at least she should call me for 15minutes to talk with me for a day? I tried to call her but she's like i'll call you tonight and havn't still today. I miss her like crazy, what should i do?!?
 
 
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*Uronacid*
post Jun 2 2006, 01:30 AM
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he long distance thing isn't cut out for everyone. It's possible that she doesn't realize that she is doign the wrong thing. After all you did say that she just recently moved out there.... maybe shes not the long distance type and cannot handel it... she may feel like your nagging her. it sucks man, look at it in the possitive try making a compromise with her.

try this:

break up with her while she is away, and when she is in town you can resume the relationship if neither of you get in one.

Good things for her:
-It will give her the freedom to do what she wants.
-She can fin dout whether you are what she wants or not

Good things for you:
-You don't have to trust her. She can't cheat on you if shes single.
-You can get to know other girls, and maybe get a better understanding of what you want in a girl. Maybe she isn't the one...
-You won't feel like the scale is off balance, becuase your the work horse in the relationship... you wont have to do any work.
 

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Spec_R   love become distance?   May 29 2006, 10:03 PM
priyas   Email her or instant message her. Maybe you shou...   May 29 2006, 10:08 PM
This Confession   ^hes trying to communicate with her 0_O maybe you ...   May 29 2006, 10:45 PM
xbabyboo   You should try to trust her..and probably keep cal...   May 29 2006, 11:29 PM
JAYeeENenWHY   You're partially right, she's partially ri...   May 30 2006, 01:11 AM
iHero   bro, im right there with you. i mean i trust my g...   May 30 2006, 09:46 PM
tainted_angel   Just a warning: "Absence can make the heart f...   May 30 2006, 11:03 PM
Smilessss   yeah you shuld prob. trust her and let her go alit...   May 31 2006, 06:58 PM
Spec_R   Today will be exactly 1 week that she left me... w...   Jun 1 2006, 01:09 AM
x3_mr_mak   all the girls here think u should trust her more b...   Jun 1 2006, 10:23 PM
Uronacid   he long distance thing isn't cut out for every...   Jun 2 2006, 01:30 AM
Spec_R   well she leaves every year...since 2003 and i alwa...   Jun 2 2006, 04:13 AM
This Confession   then maybe its time to move on? you can love someo...   Jun 2 2006, 11:05 AM
Ox_Su`Zie   3 words thats not cool. No matter how busy your gi...   Jun 2 2006, 01:14 PM
Spec_R   i don't know.....she acted like she love me be...   Jun 2 2006, 05:42 PM
Spec_R   yeah, i just called her..... she "wat's u...   Jun 2 2006, 11:42 PM
Spec_R   During work today i told her best friend about how...   Jun 9 2006, 09:00 PM
This Confession   call her and go talk to her about it. For her to b...   Jun 9 2006, 09:26 PM
Programmer   LMFAO!   Jun 9 2006, 10:16 PM
Spec_R   what the hell is wrong with you guys? i'm bei...   Jun 9 2006, 10:36 PM
This Confession   -_-' just ignore it.   Jun 9 2006, 10:43 PM
Angelina Taylor   So let me get this straight - she doesn't have...   Jun 10 2006, 10:08 AM
viola_winnie   i wanna to ask..is your gf a party girl!?if no...   Jun 10 2006, 10:16 AM
jeSs1cA   i'm sorry to hear about your girlfriend. it s...   Jun 10 2006, 10:32 AM


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