love become distance? |
love become distance? |
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my girlfriend moved out of town for the summer. She is working somewhere in virginia. She told me we'll keep in touch and stuffs but we havn't talk at all lately. I tried to call her and she seems like she's busy. Last saturday she told me that she is going to go to a club down there but then i told her, i don't really want her to go. she's like u should trust me. I don't know if she's busy at least she should call me for 15minutes to talk with me for a day? I tried to call her but she's like i'll call you tonight and havn't still today. I miss her like crazy, what should i do?!?
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he long distance thing isn't cut out for everyone. It's possible that she doesn't realize that she is doign the wrong thing. After all you did say that she just recently moved out there.... maybe shes not the long distance type and cannot handel it... she may feel like your nagging her. it sucks man, look at it in the possitive try making a compromise with her.
try this: break up with her while she is away, and when she is in town you can resume the relationship if neither of you get in one. Good things for her: -It will give her the freedom to do what she wants. -She can fin dout whether you are what she wants or not Good things for you: -You don't have to trust her. She can't cheat on you if shes single. -You can get to know other girls, and maybe get a better understanding of what you want in a girl. Maybe she isn't the one... -You won't feel like the scale is off balance, becuase your the work horse in the relationship... you wont have to do any work. |
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