oh hellp what do you talk about w/ a guy.., on dates. |
 May 27 2006, 10:15 AM
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so im going on a first date and im not a very good conversationalist. lol if thats a word but whatever ive got a phobia of awkward silences. i really hate them. so how should i start a conversation cause its just going to be me and the guy this time.
 id realy appreciate some replies on this. thank you <3 <3
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May 31 2006, 02:50 PM
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its gonna be awkward in the begininng lol theres no getting around it...
 just try to keep the small talk going in the beginning talk about surroudnings, what u did today, ex: if ur going to a resturunt, ask if he's been there before, where else he goes, if the foods good, whats his fav food, etc. Ask him quesitons about himself. pretty simple, factual stuff first. if he's polite he'll answer then ask them back to you...then go into hobbies, funny stories, trips etc. sooner or later if u two are "clicking" he'll start relaxing and asking u questions on his own too. If he makes a good joke, laugh a lot, remeber it and see if u can bring it up again cuz they'll love that u were payign attention  Have a sence of humor and don't try to be perfect...he'll probably think ur quirks are adorable. aaand...ok im running out....hope that helped? bascially, jsut be ready to talk, sound/look interested and smile, laugh, smile, laugh~
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xx_kiss_me_xx oh hellp what do you talk about w/ a guy.. May 27 2006, 10:15 AM
i.write.sins.not.tragedies I have no idea. I have the same problem. That... May 27 2006, 10:24 AM
ashopely QUOTE(i.write.sins.not.tragedies @ May 27 200... May 27 2006, 10:43 AM Emma Sue How old is this guy u like?
U could ask him... May 27 2006, 11:38 AM xx_kiss_me_xx hahah so this one time.. at band camp.. lmao any... May 27 2006, 09:38 PM lalalaLANUH Heh I had the same problem with this guy last year... May 27 2006, 01:12 PM nikkkkki Be like, "So, what's up?" Some guys ... May 27 2006, 03:18 PM ×__Elle. Ask him a lot of questions about himself. Maybe he... May 27 2006, 03:28 PM actionaction well there's alott of things you could talk ab... May 27 2006, 08:32 PM Spiritual Winged Aura well, you know most guys are nice enough to answer... May 27 2006, 11:52 PM xx_kiss_me_xx okay. hes kinda not the talkative type so i wanna ... May 28 2006, 07:49 AM xbabyboo You should start short convo`s..things that he... May 28 2006, 11:39 PM Smoogrish Well, one would hope that you knew him well enough... May 29 2006, 02:39 PM Sapphirebeauty Actually I'm more of a random type person. Jus... May 29 2006, 06:34 PM iHero i really dont know why this is so hard for ppl.
i... May 31 2006, 07:55 AM This Confession You talk about anything
What do you want to know ... May 31 2006, 11:07 AM Vera Oh, haha I worry about that too. I have never been... May 31 2006, 03:17 PM |
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