I don't think she likes me anymore. Options

[BryMonster]

As you may know I started dating the most amazing girl ever, like about a month ago. It's been great so far. No arguments, never anything bad. Usually she's mean to me, but it's not a bad mean. It's just a way she shows her affection. It's been a great relationship. I've been seeing her 3 days out of a 7 day week. Which is fine for me. Not too much. Not too little.

The situation is, I haven't seen her in about two weeks. I don't think she wants to see me either. She keeps being mean to me. Not the cute mean, because usually it would be followed by "I'm just kidding". She told me I was stupid and what not. I asked her if I could see her this weekend and she said not Friday, Saturday, or Sunday. I asked her about Sunday and she said something about the church picnic which is reasonable. Get this though:

She said I couldn't see her on Saturday because she was tanning...is that not the most ridiculous thing you have ever heard of? I thought it was pretty ridiculous and jokingly, I told her she was silly. Then she started saying I was stupid. Then I asked her why she was being so mean and she told me not to say anything more. So surely, I didn't. I'm so confused.

Could it be that she doesn't like me anymore?

[lexaa621]

Hey, relationships are built on talking and communication. If you can'd comfortable do that, you might as well call it quits.

yeah thats true. it just seems that if he were to talk to her, she wouldnt just open up and say everything thats caused her to change. i dunno. just seems like that would be too easy. when i had this problem it wasnt with my girlfriend, just a girl friend. she suddenly stopped talking to me and said it was cuz she was always busy now and "things change" and she'd get annoyed if i kept asking "how" and "why". it just seems like something this girl would do too.

but yeah, give her time, and if you cant communicate well, just call it quits like mipadi said. thats what i did, and now me and her are still friends, just not as close as we used to be. it sucks losing relationships, with friends and girlfriends alike, but i'm over it now. perhaps i'll just give her space now, and hope we can become close again in the near future.

but yeah, good luck