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oh hellp what do you talk about w/ a guy.., on dates.
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post May 27 2006, 10:15 AM
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so im going on a first date and im not a very good conversationalist. lol if thats a word but whatever ive got a phobia of awkward silences. i really hate them. so how should i start a conversation cause its just going to be me and the guy this time. blink.gif id realy appreciate some replies on this. thank you <3 <3
 
 
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post May 29 2006, 06:34 PM
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Actually I'm more of a random type person. Just talk about the surroundings or evne talk about awkward silences. For example I was with my guy friend and it was really quiet so was just like gosh I don't like awkward silences and he laughed and made a comment and we went from there and then the next time we had a awkward silence I would just say something or throw a hint like "yeahh so the awkwardness is here againn haha" biggrin.gif


That could help but not everyone can get random. Sometimes it's even hard for me because my mind will just go completely blank every once in a while biggrin.gif
 

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xx_kiss_me_xx   oh hellp what do you talk about w/ a guy..   May 27 2006, 10:15 AM
i.write.sins.not.tragedies   I have no idea. I have the same problem. That...   May 27 2006, 10:24 AM
ashopely   QUOTE(i.write.sins.not.tragedies @ May 27 200...   May 27 2006, 10:43 AM
Emma Sue   How old is this guy u like? U could ask him...   May 27 2006, 11:38 AM
xx_kiss_me_xx   hahah so this one time.. at band camp.. lmao any...   May 27 2006, 09:38 PM
lalalaLANUH   Heh I had the same problem with this guy last year...   May 27 2006, 01:12 PM
nikkkkki   Be like, "So, what's up?" Some guys ...   May 27 2006, 03:18 PM
×__Elle.   Ask him a lot of questions about himself. Maybe he...   May 27 2006, 03:28 PM
actionaction   well there's alott of things you could talk ab...   May 27 2006, 08:32 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   well, you know most guys are nice enough to answer...   May 27 2006, 11:52 PM
xx_kiss_me_xx   okay. hes kinda not the talkative type so i wanna ...   May 28 2006, 07:49 AM
xbabyboo   You should start short convo`s..things that he...   May 28 2006, 11:39 PM
Smoogrish   Well, one would hope that you knew him well enough...   May 29 2006, 02:39 PM
Sapphirebeauty   Actually I'm more of a random type person. Jus...   May 29 2006, 06:34 PM
iHero   i really dont know why this is so hard for ppl. i...   May 31 2006, 07:55 AM
This Confession   You talk about anything What do you want to know ...   May 31 2006, 11:07 AM
nightowl89   its gonna be awkward in the begininng lol theres n...   May 31 2006, 02:50 PM
Vera   Oh, haha I worry about that too. I have never been...   May 31 2006, 03:17 PM


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