stopping..., doing that stuff... |
 May 29 2006, 02:10 PM
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hi.. i feel that my boyfriend and i are getting wayyYY too physical.. almost everytime we're at each other's house we end up doing that kinda stuff.. fingering.. BJ.. you get the picture.. so yea... i want to stop.. but i.. er.. cant.. coz yea.. bad will power?
 ive talked to him about it.. and we both agree... but when the time comes.. both of us dont seem to follow what we said before.. so yea... in a couple months we're both going to the same university.. living in residence... and im scared as hell that we might actually.. have sex or what not..  i know a way i can stop this is stop going to each others' house.. or going out wiht a bunch of people.. but i was wondering if you had any ideas on how i can stop doing that kind of stuff but still spend some alone time with him.. ive read numerous sites about hwo good chastity is and stuff.. but yea... any thoughts, ideas, or opinions? thanks |
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May 29 2006, 02:57 PM
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i don't think there's necessarily anything you can do...you both have to learn to have some self-control.
i can understand where you're coming from because me and my boyfriend do things like that...but it's only once a week [when i go to his house on the weekend], so it's not excessive. maybe you should go to eachother's houses less so that you won't be compelled to get physical..but i don't think that will solve anything. your relationship shouldn't be composed of just getting physical and you two should be able to hang out alone without feeling the need to do anything like that. |
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oOKittyKatOo stopping... May 29 2006, 02:10 PM
magnificentmike What about hanging out in public places where that... May 29 2006, 03:03 PM Smoogrish Just tell him you think you're going too fast ... May 29 2006, 03:09 PM I Shot JFK can i just ask, why do you want to stop?
it all s... May 29 2006, 05:27 PM xcaitlinx ^ i'm assuming that you're joking around, ... May 29 2006, 05:50 PM
I Shot JFK QUOTE(xcaitlinx @ May 29 2006, 11:50 PM) ... May 30 2006, 06:59 PM tainted_angel I think that being together in public places is a ... May 29 2006, 06:38 PM xbabyboo Whenever you guys start to do things..try to remin... May 29 2006, 07:03 PM nikkkkki I think Mike's idea is good, but like someone ... May 30 2006, 08:23 PM iHero whoa. alright i didint read all of what you wrote,... May 30 2006, 09:25 PM I_Heart_Blink i'd say hang out with him and one other close ... May 31 2006, 12:21 AM glitter_jazz09 Strongly put into ur mind the things that you know... May 31 2006, 07:30 AM magicfann theres nothing wrong with messing around....andie ... May 31 2006, 05:36 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b If you truly wanted to stop, you'd have the wi... May 31 2006, 06:08 PM |
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