Some girls don't like me........., ........coz I'm popular :( Options

[Emma Sue]

Hi guys.
I used to have some friends but they dumped me coz they say that i'm too perfect they hate me.
I'm very popular, u know i'm the kinda girl that everyone knows and likes. I've many older friends and they invite me to their parties and my friends used to get mad.
On Saint Valentine's day all my boy classmates brought me flowers and presents(almost everybody has a crush on me) and my friends wouldn't speak to me.
But really it's not my fault that every boy likes me. I just try to be nice and sweet w/ everyone. But i don't like anybody else, i love my bf.

A month ago my friend was like: Don't talk to me again. I hate you. U r so f****** beautiful, u r smart,u have the most amazing bohemian style ever, teachers like u, u do good at school, every single boy that meets u thinks u r the cutest and sweetest girl ever. But I hate you!!!!!!!!! Even my parents love u more than they love me. I'm fed up w/ you Emma Sue!!!!Emma Sue!The nicest name!!! I hate you!!!!! U r like England's sweetheart!!!!!!!

And since then she and her friends don't talk to me. I've got other friends but I can't understand why some girls don't like me only because I'm popular. It's unfair coz I'm totally nice and sweet w/ them. What do u think?

[starlette]

how can u be popular if everyone hates you? Thats something I never got. I was popular in school because I was friends with just about everyone. People liked me and I liked them. I was friends with freaks geeks goths band nerds and pretty girls. But I wasnt considered "popular." And then the popular people were the most hated a-hole bitches in the school. And they had no friends but eachother. How can u be popular if your on everyones hate list? no offense, but you dont sound very popular to me. Popular generally means people know and like you, and from the way you desribe urself, no one likes you. Because your conceited and probably assigned the title popular to yourself. Just be sincere with people. Stop talking and whining about your obvious lack of real problems. I have no sympathy for you. I'm sorry. When there are people out there being discriminated against because of the color of their skin or how small their house is and the fact they cant afford nice clothes or a good meal, I just cant give a sh*t about the fact that you are sad because you are popular yet no one likes you. Its time you take a good look in the mirror and change your priorities. And I'm not saying thing because I'm a jealous ugly person because as you can see I've no reason to be jealous. Expand your world of me me me and try to find out whats wrong with your friend instead of just whining because she doesnt like you. Maybe theyre all tired of hearing about how wonderfully beautiful talented and smart you are. Maybe they want you to tell them how beautiful talented and smart they are. Maybe they would like to go a day without hearing about your problems. Open yourself up for others. Being born pretty and smart doesnt make you anymore interesting, deseving, or better than the next person. Try making friends with people who might hurt your reputation, and try not flirting with every guy in your school. Nothing pisses a girl off more than another girl, who can choose from 500 other guys, going after the one she wants. And like I said be sincere. Care about those around you and move on to the world outside of your compact mirror.

[waccoon]

how can u be popular if everyone hates you? Thats something I never got. I was popular in school because I was friends with just about everyone. People liked me and I liked them. I was friends with freaks geeks goths band nerds and pretty girls. But I wasnt considered "popular." And then the popular people were the most hated a-hole bitches in the school. And they had no friends but eachother. How can u be popular if your on everyones hate list? no offense, but you dont sound very popular to me. Popular generally means people know and like you, and from the way you desribe urself, no one likes you. Because your conceited and probably assigned the title popular to yourself. Just be sincere with people. Stop talking and whining about your obvious lack of real problems. I have no sympathy for you. I'm sorry. When there are people out there being discriminated against because of the color of their skin or how small their house is and the fact they cant afford nice clothes or a good meal, I just cant give a sh*t about the fact that you are sad because you are popular yet no one likes you. Its time you take a good look in the mirror and change your priorities. And I'm not saying thing because I'm a jealous ugly person because as you can see I've no reason to be jealous. Expand your world of me me me and try to find out whats wrong with your friend instead of just whining because she doesnt like you. Maybe theyre all tired of hearing about how wonderfully beautiful talented and smart you are. Maybe they want you to tell them how beautiful talented and smart they are. Maybe they would like to go a day without hearing about your problems. Open yourself up for others. Being born pretty and smart doesnt make you anymore interesting, deseving, or better than the next person. Try making friends with people who might hurt your reputation, and try not flirting with every guy in your school. Nothing pisses a girl off more than another girl, who can choose from 500 other guys, going after the one she wants. And like I said be sincere. Care about those around you and move on to the world outside of your compact mirror.

"Some girls."

Anyways, I don't know why you're all attacking her, she has a problem she needs help with. Telling her how conceited she is really doesn't help.

[starlette]

"Some girls."

Anyways, I don't know why you're all attacking her, she has a problem she needs help with. Telling her how conceited she is really doesn't help.

the thing is, the only real way to fix her problem is to work on her ego. No one like someone who cares only about themselves. Friends are the people who are supposed to be there for you. And to fix her problem the first thing she needs to do is fix herself.