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[xostolenkissezox]

i need help. i can't seem to figure this guy out on my own so i'm resorting to this. so we've been talking for 7 months. we both agreed it would be better to start off as friends and let it evolve into more since we hadn't even met yet...yes i found him on myspace but people i knew, knew him so it was safe. we've talked for hours on end and he's told me everything...told me i was his dream girl and i was as close to perfect as he'd ever get...all that mushy crap. he came over this weekend and we acted like we were a couple. sitting on him, kissing, holding hands, cuddling...all that fun stuff. well i seen him last night while we were at the casino and we talked but it was getting late and i was ready to come home so he kissed me goodbye and said he'd call me today. when he didn't call by like 9 i called him and left him a voicemail. after that his cousin called me from his phone asking me a question but we got disconnected so i called back. someone else answered and wouldn't let me talk to "the guy" and said he didn't want to talk to anyone. so i'm confused and wonder what ya'll think...is he truly not into me or was he maybe just having a bad day???

[Paradox of Life]

Give it time. Ask him about what happened and if he really does like you. If he makes bad excuses or avoids the question, he's trying to hide something which isn't right in a friendship much less a relationship.