Dr. Sean Options

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I solve problems. Well actually I don't, but I can talk with you. I can be the one you can talk to. I can be your hero baby! Just kidding.

Anyways, simply reply here with problems with boyfriends, school, and life. I'll discuss it with you.

If you have more serious problems, than you can pm me for my AIM sn.

If you have more more serious problems, find a real counseler.

Thank you for your time.

Note: Please be serious. No stupid or pointless problems. All of those will be ignored.

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wow... brutal advice dr sean. ur supposed to be on the guy's side!

alright here's one. i have a friend (female) that is attractive. but she acts like a slut. i know her friends well, so i cant avoid her. she assumes since most guys go for her, i will too, so she keeps trying to act all sexy next to me just to tease me. and think we're friends. how do i tell her that im disgusted by her actions and dont consider her a good friend without sounding insensitive/gay?

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wow... brutal advice dr sean. ur supposed to be on the guy's side!

alright here's one. i have a friend (female) that is attractive. but she acts like a slut. i know her friends well, so i cant avoid her. she assumes since most guys go for her, i will too, so she keeps trying to act all sexy next to me just to tease me. and think we're friends. how do i tell her that im disgusted by her actions and dont consider her a good friend without sounding insensitive/gay?

Simply tell her, "I don't like how you act so unwoman-like towards me. I'd prefer you act normal. Please stop."

If she does those actions, just tell her "please stop." Or if you can, walk away. Ignore her when she does those things, and soon she should get the point.

There is this girl that me and my friends hang out with that I like. I cant get myself to ask her out or tell her how i feel.. I also keep having these feelings of jealousy/hatred towards her and one of my other friends because I think she likes him.

Any advice on (a) how i should tell her that i like her. (b) find out who she really likes and/or © if she doesnt like me how should i stop thinking of her the way I do now.

Thanks Dr. Sean!

If you're really up for some dedication, and when I say dedication, I mean dedication, try to do what I say.

First off, be nice to her, talk to her. Don't rush into things, unless you already know her very well. If you tell her you like her when she doesn't like you back yet, it will just mess up the entire relationship. Everything will be awkward in front of her.

When finally you feel that she likes you, simply tell her you like her! Don't be shy, and if she rejects you, just act normal.

Even if someone dates her, continue to talk to her normally. Sooner or later, she'll find out you're a great guy, and she might date you.

Once you date her, don't let your jealous instincts get in the way! Be protective, but not overprotective. Let her talk to some guys you trust, and if she wants to friendly hug a guy friend, let her! If she is loyal, she'll know whether or not she should talk to certain types of guys or not.

If you want to find out who she likes, you'll have to be great friends with her before you even ask. I think asking her is the best way. If you ask her friends, they could provide false information that will mess up everything. And if she says, "I don't know who I like", or "Why?", it could mean she likes you!

Yep, use dedication. Talking works best. Don't tell her friends you like her though, if they tell, then the relationship is screwed.

- Dr. Sean