When do you know its Looove ? Options

[nikkkkki]

Weeelll, im pretty convinced im in Love with my boyfriend . Even though its only been Aboout TwwoMonthhs (The thirty-first is the Daay guuys<3) . He never leaves my mind, i miss him like crazy even if hes only a few feet away . I even Dream about him Every night . I swear to God its Truue . Weve already talked about Marraige, I do realize were young & Should be having fun still figuring out whos our perfect One . Just to let you all know were only Thhirteen . Pretty young . But I think were made for each other . Ive found him . & Ive never felt so happy . He makes me feel absolutely great, like, confidence i never thought I haad . Well be going to the same high school next year . & Im not one bit doubtful of his wandering eyes . Actuually, he worries more about Me, hes like the Jealous girlfriend . :) I Adoore him . We consider each other as our First real loves . & Id Die for our love . Honestly, deeply .

Could this be Ittt ?

& could Someone maybe tell me if theyve ever experienced something like this at my age ?

[waccoon]

I think an important question to address is: is it infatuation / lust?

[chasingvictory]

I think an important question to address is: is it infatuation / lust?

yes that is a very important question. 13 years of age is young. I'm 16 and that is still too young to talk about marriage. I mean I have hope with my current one, but right now we shouldn't be thinking about that. what i'm just saying is that ... don't get your hopes up. bf/gf relationships don't have the same committment as marriage do---- they can leave you anytime once they find something about you that makes them tick or they will get bored.

Love or infatuation?

Infatuation is: a mainly physical attraction

Love is: physical attraction, yes, but more interested in your personality

Infatuationmainly focuses on physical qualities

Love is: everything about you attracts - overlooks your weaknesses and focuses on your strengths - sees only the good

Infatuation accelerates quickly - burns with passion

Lovestarts more slowly – you’re not sure how you feel but deep inside you know something has happened

Infatuation the passion begins to burn out and the interest begins to dilute

Love: the passion grows and the interest becomes a constant relationship

Infatuation ends as abruptly as it began

Love:long term love grows and endures; a failing love relationship will end slowly

Infatuation your world revolves around this person

Love:your world revolves around this person but you have time for others too

Infatuation : the relationship does not survive separation

Love:absence makes the heart grow fonder... love grows during times of separation

Infatuation : arguments and disagreements destroy the relationship

Love:love works through arguments and disagreements and makes good - lessons are learned

Infatuation :the relationship can be very demanding and self fulfilling

Love: love is concerned for the other - to give and not to expect in return - giving unconditionally

Infatuation :jealousy and possessive behaviour can be ever present

Love: jealousy can exist but it is generally less intense – although there can always be exceptions!

Infatuation : infatuation eventually ends

Love: love endures - the greatest thing of all is LOVE - it holds everything together

-taken from lamplight.org