Dr. Sean Options

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I solve problems. Well actually I don't, but I can talk with you. I can be the one you can talk to. I can be your hero baby! Just kidding.

Anyways, simply reply here with problems with boyfriends, school, and life. I'll discuss it with you.

If you have more serious problems, than you can pm me for my AIM sn.

If you have more more serious problems, find a real counseler.

Thank you for your time.

Note: Please be serious. No stupid or pointless problems. All of those will be ignored.

[John Fu]

I need help on how to..take more self-control. I eat too much.

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I need help on how to..take more self-control. I eat too much.

You can always have someone help you. They can keep the food for you, or stop buying too much food.

If you live by yourself, then it's really up to you to keep yourself controlled.

Maybe you can set an amount of money that you are limited to use buying food each week.

It's all about setting your mind to it.

OK, here's one.

This girl won't get a clue. I only like her as a friend. How do i make a sound point about it without hurting her feelings? I've known her since middle school. Not trying to lose a good friend.

There are many things you can tell her.

I suggest telling her that you have known her for too long, and you only like her as a great friend.

You can also tell her that dating would ruin your relationship, and that you don't want that to happen. Tell her that you really like her as a friend, and you wouldn't want anything to ruin your relationship with her.

When you tell her though, tell it to her straightly. Look her in the eye and don't try to avoid hurting her feelings. It's bound to happen, but you can make the pain a little less. Be sure to be serious, so she understands you mean business.

I need help getting myself to start on my homework or finish it. If i'm at a library its too quiet and gets distracting. If i'm at a coffee shop or something the aroma distracts me. Smells too good. If i'm at home I end up watching tv or using the computer like right now o.o or I push it aside. So....... any advice?

Even though I turn off the tv or computer I just end up turning it back on. Like right now my keyboard is on my homework.

This problem is annoying and common with many students. To really solve it, you need people like your parents to help.

You can ask them to monitor and stop you from watching too much tv or using the computer. If you're the only one using the computer, you can take out the power plug and ask your parents to hide or keep it. Then ask them to give it back when you show them your homework.

For the TV, if no one watches it a lot, you can do the same thing. Ask your parents to hide the remote or the plug.

If all else fails, ask your parents to cancel the internet or cancel your tv subscription.

If you don't want help from your parents, you'll have to use a lot of self control. I suggest practicing self control, as when you grow older, that's the only thing you'll have.

@Comik_knerd:
I don't know if I'm going to be a counseler when I grow up. I just want to help people. It's interesting learning and learning from their problems.