waitingg. =[, for him to kiss me. |
 May 22 2006, 10:01 PM
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okay. so i`ve been going out with my bf for three weeks and he`s yet to kiss me. he hasn`t even kissed me on the cheek and i`ve already started to kiss him on the cheek. he`s my first bf and i`m his first gf. it feels like he has no idea what he`s supposed to do. i don`t have any idea what i`m doing either, but it sure feels like i`m trying more then him. he`s only held my hand three times. and it`s not like he doesn`t care; he`s written me a poem and he`s bought me things. i`ve already told him not to waste his money and that all i need is him. i dunno whether to ask him what`s up or what. and it`s like i feel like i`m emotionally pressuring him if i ask for a kiss, yeunno? not to mention i`m gonna feel desperate afterwards. am i taking things too fast? or are things too slow? should i just go for it&kiss him? i seriously dunno what to do. so yeahh. i`ll take any advice you guys give me. =]
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May 24 2006, 04:07 PM
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my boyfriend was the same way. there were times when i didn't think he was interested, until one day i went in for a kiss on the cheek and a hug and BOOM it just happened. we took it slow even after that and i really love him for that. he's been patient and respectful and i feel incredibly lucky.
we don't hold hands every waking moment or make out at every chance and i love it because sometimes just a smile and peck is enough to know he cares especially like when you said he wrote you poetry. that's 10 times better than and kiss. just take it slow and if you want to hold his hand or kiss him, go for his hand or walk him to class or to a place to be alone and just go for it. he's your boyfriend. he's your first boyfriend, even better. don't rush things. just let them happen as you feel its right. |
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THATS x RiGHT waitingg. =[ May 22 2006, 10:01 PM
_sarcastic_ it's only been three weeks, give him a little ... May 22 2006, 10:19 PM Smoogrish Kisses will one day appear like magic (poof!) ... May 22 2006, 10:28 PM nikkkkki Hes just an overload of Shyness . Ohhh, dont swe... May 22 2006, 11:21 PM Uronacid i didn't kiss my first g/f for 6 straight mont... May 23 2006, 02:48 AM
Acid Bath Slayer QUOTE(Uronacid @ May 23 2006, 2:48 AM) i ... May 23 2006, 04:01 AM Uronacid QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ May 23 2006, 5:0... May 23 2006, 03:31 PM Acid Bath Slayer QUOTE(Uronacid @ May 23 2006, 3:31 PM) wo... May 23 2006, 05:41 PM YourPrettyFaceIsGoingToHELL He seems very noble and patient when it comes
to t... May 23 2006, 05:02 AM lalalaLANUH Just because he hasn't kissed you yet doesn... May 23 2006, 05:29 PM This Confession exactly what i meant in that one forum
also if h... May 23 2006, 06:45 PM STFULiNDA Hehe kissing.
Wouldnt you rather it be a surprised... May 24 2006, 03:04 PM o.0krazee.pickle0.o Well it sounds like you have the same problem i ha... May 24 2006, 11:16 PM mipadi He's probably just shy. Talk (or at least hint... May 25 2006, 07:24 AM Uronacid well, i know that i was extremely shy about kissin... May 25 2006, 10:15 AM JakeKKing Yeah. The last girl I went out with. Never kissed ... May 25 2006, 12:13 PM xbabyboo Three weeks isn`t that long.You should give hi... May 25 2006, 09:10 PM |
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