Oh crap...what to do?, Too soon? Options

[da_SALSA]

I broke up with a guy I've fallen for because well...he's changed a lot and he's become an ass. Well I ended it...cried over it. Then, this guy I played tennis with (who I liked during tennis season...just a little) helped me cheer up about it saying what I did was right. Well, after his concert (he has a band) when I got home he asked me out and well since I started to like him, I said yes.

So...we just had our first date. And, I'm not used to being treated so nicely because of my last relationship. Well in a way I'm scared and I'm not ready. But, gosh I don't know what to do. I'm not ready...so how am I supposed to tell the tennis guy? My friend just told me how much the tennis guy likes me, and he got suspicious that I'm having second thoughts.

I don't know what to do. Tennis guy is awesome, but I...don't know! Is it too soon you think?

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

it is to soon to start a relationshipp and you might feel akward after a guy treats you so bad and he treats you so good.. but you also deserve to have a guy that treats you right. just tell him that you need some time and mean while you guys can be friends tell him that you do like him but you just need some space to think for a while. if he really likes you he will understand and give you some space. after a ending a realtionship that wasnt a good one its good to relax a little while before going off and meeting new people. tell your guy that you still wanna be with him but give you some time. good luck!!