I hate her!!!!!! She finally found a way to make me break up w/ Ralph.., ...... I'm so depressed! Help! Options

[Emma Sue]

Hi guys.
Well that girl I told u about, u know, that threatened me to break up w/ my bf didin't stop at bothering me.
Now she says that if i don't break up w/ Ralphn or I tell him she's gonna tell to my brother's coach that he smokes and drinks. To be honest my bro used to smoke a bit and he drinks whenever he goes out. His coach is dead strict and I'm sure he won't keep my bro if he finds out about him drinking. Logan (my brother) is the best player and he adores his team.

I tried to tell Ralph but she told him that she finds me wonderful and now Ralph is so happy that I get on well w/ his friends. He just thinks that it's impossible for someone to hate me.
I told my oldest brother and now he worries too coz the girl has got all the evidence she needs to destroy my brother.

Guys I'm desperate, I can't find any solution.. the situation is too painful. I love my brothers more than anything else in this world but I love Ralph too. I guess I'll have to break up w/ him so my bro is Ok. I cry every day, please help a bit if u can. Thanks.

[*Uronacid*]

Shes all talk... people like that are so stupid.

HOW TO SHUT HER THE f**k UP!!!!

- don't be worried
- Your brother isn't going to get kicked becuase he smoked or drank once while he was on the team. Unless, you're caught smoking or drinking on school property or arrested and they see the police report in the news paper hey rarely do anything about it.
- Shes just threatening you, and she hasn't done anythign about it.
- Shes a stupid bitch
- Stand your ground
- Don't fight her or say mean things to her, just tell her truth. Like, say things like, "If you do do somthign like that, i will be forced to do somethign about it. I just don't want that thing to happen to you."
- Cope an additude that shows her messing with you is not in her best intrest.
- Be true to your word
- im not suggesting you fight her or swear and cuss, but i am suggesting you don't take sh*t like you have been. she knows your afraid, you need to be strong. if you say something stick too it or she will think your a liar.

god, i deal with people like this all the time. By the time im done with them, they are literally appologizing to me.... if you want to talk about it message me... give me some situations, ill show you... message me ;)