i need advice =/, age difference.. |
i need advice =/, age difference.. |
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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,247 ![]() |
hmm..well me & this guy dated in november then we took a break & we are deciding now if we should date again. well i think he's the one..like i can talk to him about almost anything & i feel confortable telling him anything. - Other guys i've dated i dont really feel like i can talk to them on the phone cuz i guess nothing to say ? but with him we talk about everything hehe. well the part i need help with. Im 14 he's 17 turning 18 in june. im turning 15 in november. My friends keep telling me he's gonna go to jail. So i dont know what to do. I've talked to him about it he told me not to worry about it that if i feel that is keeping us apart maybe we should just be friends. i havent gave him an answer yet because i dont wanna be friends & i know if i tell him iw ant to i will regret it so much.
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![]() msladyliberty ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,766 ![]() |
The age is good. girls mature faster than guys (girls are 3 years ahead, mentally)
Well, if you plan on keeping the relationship, your parents have to be aware that he's turning 18. And if you stay in the relationship...you can't have sex. If ya'll do, don't even tell anyone ya'll are! seriously!! I have 2 girlfriends that HAD to marry their boyfriends because it was child molesting. Their teachers and some friends exploited their relationship, and their boyfriends were threatened with arrest. No joke! One is divorced (at 18) now and the other had kids...so she's just stuck with the guy. Both were married at 15 & 16. He'll be going to college soon, so you have to think about if he's willing to commit to you. And you have to live with the fact that he won't be around you everyday...and you must have trust in him. If you're not able to trust and live with that, then...just stay friends. |
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