I hate her!!!!!! She finally found a way to make me break up w/ Ralph.., ...... I'm so depressed! Help! Options

[Emma Sue]

Hi guys.
Well that girl I told u about, u know, that threatened me to break up w/ my bf didin't stop at bothering me.
Now she says that if i don't break up w/ Ralphn or I tell him she's gonna tell to my brother's coach that he smokes and drinks. To be honest my bro used to smoke a bit and he drinks whenever he goes out. His coach is dead strict and I'm sure he won't keep my bro if he finds out about him drinking. Logan (my brother) is the best player and he adores his team.

I tried to tell Ralph but she told him that she finds me wonderful and now Ralph is so happy that I get on well w/ his friends. He just thinks that it's impossible for someone to hate me.
I told my oldest brother and now he worries too coz the girl has got all the evidence she needs to destroy my brother.

Guys I'm desperate, I can't find any solution.. the situation is too painful. I love my brothers more than anything else in this world but I love Ralph too. I guess I'll have to break up w/ him so my bro is Ok. I cry every day, please help a bit if u can. Thanks.

[SarahxJoy]

This only worked once for me (well, I only tried it once), but it could help if you want:

How often does this girl threaten you, telling about the things she'll do? You should..get a tape recorder or something, and carry it around with you when you think there's a possibility you might run into her. Then when she threatens you, you can record it and show it to Ralph.

I wouldn't recommend using the recorder on your cellphone though, if it has one, 'cause to fully hear what she's saying you'd have to have it right in front of her face. Or unless she just speaks really loudly.

Sounds a little complicated, but it can work. 'Cause then, you'll have proof of what a pathetic person she is.