i need advice =/, age difference.. |
 May 18 2006, 05:48 PM
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hmm..well me & this guy dated in november then we took a break & we are deciding now if we should date again. well i think he's the one..like i can talk to him about almost anything & i feel confortable telling him anything. - Other guys i've dated i dont really feel like i can talk to them on the phone cuz i guess nothing to say ? but with him we talk about everything hehe. well the part i need help with. Im 14 he's 17 turning 18 in june. im turning 15 in november. My friends keep telling me he's gonna go to jail. So i dont know what to do. I've talked to him about it he told me not to worry about it that if i feel that is keeping us apart maybe we should just be friends. i havent gave him an answer yet because i dont wanna be friends & i know if i tell him iw ant to i will regret it so much.
please help me 
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| *Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg* |
May 19 2006, 05:39 PM
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I don't think age really matters that much, but you probably should be more aware when you're around him. I'm sure he's a great guy, but I've heard of stories about older men taking advantage of younger girls, and I don't want that to happen to you (not that I'm saying it would). It's only illegal if you have sex, as it is considered statutory rape.
Bottom line, numbers don't matter, so I wouldn't worry... just be careful. QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ May 19 2006, 4:28 PM)  Once he turns 18, it won't be legal for you to have sex with him, and you may feel the urge to do it. As far as psychology, age is just a number, but just be careful. Older guys can have some raging hormones, and you can't always trust them. Isn't it illegal for an 18-year-old to have sex with a girl who is under that age? That's statutory rape. I think they both have to be 18+ for it to be legal. |
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May 20 2006, 09:00 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg @ May 19 2006, 5:39 PM) Isn't it illegal for an 18-year-old to have sex with a girl who is under that age? That's statutory rape. I think they both have to be 18+ for it to be legal. That's what I was saying. Anyway, a lot of people don't even date at age 14. Dating someone that's about to go to college when you're getting ready for highschool is a huge risk. What do you think he'll be doing as soon as he can drink and hang out with his friends at the bar? |
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