Alright, I will bring up problems I have with myself!, Here it goes, my first problem to post on here... Options

[*Uronacid*]

I'm in a relationship with a beautiful girl... hollyann. I love the crap out of her. Hell, i won't give up on her no matter what. I pray for her, I talk to her every day, I have major feelings for this girl, and you guys all know who she is. Here's the problem, and its really long and complicated i honestly dont know exactly what the problem is but hopfully you guys can help me figure things out. This is the hard thing.

i'm going to visit her on july 4th, and latley all my friends are making me question my relationship... it makes me crazy, everyone is telling me that these are the years in my life where i should have fun and fool around and just be friends and not put that stress on my life, and i didn't have a problem with it at first, but these people have been friends with me for years, and its just so fukkin hard to keep this from them... i really love holly, and they suppress it with all this dbout they put in my head... things i hear all the time:

1. they say: i don't know why you go out with that girl she lives a million miles away.
- i say: it could be worth it
- i feel: depressed, what if im work so hard for nothing... :(

2. they say: you should go out with grace you guys are perfect for eachother
- i say: convenient maybe, but perfect... nope
- i feel: don't give up.... please stop it guys...

3. they say: these are the years you should be haveing fun
- i say: i know, but i can't do that...
- i feel: am i missing out on somthing? ugh, don't give up, but man this sh*t is wearing me down.... :(

4. they say: don't just stay in one place josh, you should be trying out all different girls
- i say: but i really like holly


5. they say: hey, josh cmon, you can have holly, sarah, and grace if you wanted... (probobly shouldnt have said that one)
- i say: ugh, thats so wrong
- i feel: but what if they are right... this is horrible :(


6. they say: shes such a sarcastic bitch why do you like her.
- i say: i like how shes a sarcastic bitch
- i feel: hhahahahhahahahhaha, good... :)

7. they say: all i see in her is immaturity josh, shes only 15! *echo*
- i say: well, alot of bad stuff happened to her... shes alot more mature than most people her age... she had to grow up much faster... ;_;
- I feel: She is 15... is that really such a bad thing, people keep loooking down on me, and makeing me feel like such sh*t... :(

8. they say: i don't know why you put up with all of her crap somtimes...
- i say: but you don't know whats going on... you don't know her like i do...
- i feel: you should always work things out... :P

9. I said: hey, if i wasn't in a relationship. it would probobly fool around with you guys but i am so i wont. (i was drunk when i said this, im extrememly honest when im drunk)
- They say: ugh, if only you weren't dating josh... i would fool around with you too... you guys should just break up. hell, i would have sex with you if grace wouldn't. as long as you wanted too...
- i say: i would feel horrible if i did something like that!!!!
- i feel: what the f**king!!!!! dhfgnkjsdghfniusgbdufsygrvbuygbduogybdfuyb WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS TO ME WHEN IM DRUNK DAMN YOU!!!!!!!! f**k f**k f**k f**k!!!!! PUT MY FIST THROUGH THE f**king WALL!!!!!

10. they say: josh, you could just be wasting your time....
- i say: *nothing, i don't know what to say anymore* :(
- i feel: sad

[waccoon]

I didn't read anything but the first post.

I can tell you that long distance relationships have to be serious, and both sides have to completely trust one another. Forget what anyone else says. You're the one in the relationship, not them. If you feel it's right, and it's what you want, then go for it.

Forget everyone else. You and Holly are the only ones that matter. If you two really care for each other, (and you're both dead serious) then both of you can stick it out until you can be together physically. Your problem really seems to be the pressure your friends are putting on you.