Here's one for you people.. Options

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Ok, When do you know when your going out with some one that your past the lust..

And how do you know if your relationship is not just based on lust?



Me my self and I.. when you can tell the person you love them and you know its true in your heart.

[*This Confession*]

well lust is based on physical..
and love can have part of that..
but its mostly off emotional..

^Sarah is right on the infatuation..
everyone has their flaws and when you overlook them
and don't see any
and go in a relationship thinking that way..
its not going to work at all..


hmm but here this may work

Puppy love

Characteristically defined by age, the term "puppy love" came from how a person typically feels toward a puppy. It's quite common to have these feelings for a teacher, a friend's parent, etc. These feelings don't usually last very long but should be enjoyed while they are felt.

Unrequited love

Unrequited love is a love that is given, but not received. This can be quite painful, but is a part of growing up. It is important to be respectful of the person who does not return these feelings of affection and be mindful of their wishes.

Co-dependent love

Being co-dependent, spending all your time with someone, feeling like you can't live without them and basing your self worth on what that person thinks of you, is not love. You need to be able to be your own person, independent of them. I think that's why most people don't really fall in love until they are older. You have to know who you are first.

True love

That perfect, magical balance between you and them. The feeling that you are whole as a person, by yourself and more with that special someone.

Parent-child love

I think that this form of love is the most perfect and the most pure. It does not compare to anything I've ever felt. I remember when I was younger and dreaming about the day I would have kids. I was always worried about what if I had more than one. Wouldn't you always have a special place in your heart for your first? Could you love the second and third the same as the first? I was afraid that the love I felt would be cut in half or in thirds. But something wonderful happened. It doubled. And tripled. I am overwhelmed with all the emotion.

Lust

Feelings driven primarily by sexual longing.

Friendship love

You know what I'm talking about. The friends you can tell anything to. The ones you cover for when they're in trouble.