Would you fight over a girl/boy with your best friend?, Honestly Options

[*My Cinderella.*]

Would you ever risk the chance of ruining a great friendship for a guy/girl. Why or why not?

[seremela_culnamo]

It really depends on the situation..

If we both happen to like him, we wouldn't fight. There might be misunderstandings (i.e. one not flirting with him, but it seems like so, even if we agreed none of us can be with him), but we wouldn't actually fight over a guy.

However, if it's the case where one of us liked this guy for a really long time and the other didn't, then a fight with grudges that will be held will only happen if the other starts liking him again. It's not wrong to like someone, but it's not nice if the other best friend starts liking him, and starts dating him behind her best friend's back.

It has happened to me. With a really good friend of mines and just a good friend of mines back in grade 7. Us three liked the same guy, but we didn't fight or anything. I felt horrible though. I remember the moment at the dance. People asked him if he wanted to dance with me and he said he would love to, and that he was waiting for me to be around him. After all, I was extremely shy and stayed as far as possible away from him (across the other side of the gym!). Anyway, I never danced with him and the other two girls did. My really good friend brought me out afterwards, and asked me if I was okay. That even though she liked him, it didn't matter because I liked him, too. That I should've slowed dance with him and whatnot. But she was supportive and such. It was still horrible. I hate myself for being so shy (& still am!) and I can't do anything about it.

Otherwise, no. Everyone is free to like someone else and it cannot be stopped.