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[elle0506]

well for all of you who remember my recents poss about issues with guys i wanna be with...well its down to two...

i went to prom with one i had a great time...n he was just so clingy it made me gag..i dont like him like that n when i think about it i just kinda get this grotesk feeling in my gut...ya kno like regret of some sort?...but when i met his family OMG...i loved them..n i cant just bail out on him like hey im sorry i dont like you but i wanna be friends...i mean he's told people we're goin out n im surprised it hasnt gone back to him that i've verified that we're NOT!!!!..what do i do...i dont wanna hurt him i love his family n when i talk to them its like im a miracle in his life:cry:
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guy #2

well im mixed with white spanish asian black... but long story short..my dad left me when i was made in process so its my mom n me...n step dad who is white. well my mom n dad(step) dont approve of me going out iwth a black guy if i did. well this number 2 guy is black but when they met him they thought he was the most respectful boy they've ever met but still a couldn't date him....blah blah blah!!!!!!!!!!!....WELL he's liked me ever since 7thy grade n we're now juniors to be...i dunno wat to do he's one of those...boys...like the girl with the bad boyfriend he's the best friend you've turned to for it all....then its like BAM hey im in love you type thing....understand??....plz help me to

....just when i thought summer was gonna be my answers to my issues....lol lol...well im goin to a dif scchool next year so thats a plus!!...

chau i love you all for ur advice.

[Chii]

Tell guy #1 that you're sorry but you don't like him that way and that you two are not going out. Do this as soon as possible, the longer you push this aside, the worse it will be. If he knows that you two are not going out yet tells people, cut him out of you life because he is a lying ass. I've dealt with a guy like that and now he just disgusts me because he lied about us.

If you like guy #2, then go for him. Your parents aren't the ones who will be with you, you are. They already like him so if you two get serious, they're going to have to accept it. It's ridiculous that they're making race an issue
You're just going to have to lie a little... I know lying is bad but you should be able to experience things. You're not doing anything illegal or harmful.