I fu*ked things up again..., -_- |
 May 12 2006, 05:22 PM
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Ok .. Ive known this girl my hole life.. she is my best friend but she has problem with her home life, drugs, drinking, and others. Her dad came over to my house to ask me questions about my friend.. and I said somthing the wrong way.. and now she claims that I " f**ked up her life".. " AGAIN " .. Its not like we never fought before.. and I have just known her for so long I know how to deal with her pissed off ness. This time I think I f**ked up for good. I told her I was sorry and I dont know what else I can do is pray.. yes im a prayer..
hears some one yell " CHURCHY " behind me.. Yes its true .. this is just one of the other things that she has problems with.. I love her and her to much to let 13 years go down the drain.. ( Im 15 ) Help please? 
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May 14 2006, 12:42 AM
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first of all if she really has a bad home life you should not have said anything to her dad or else it would be another fight. you should have told an adult who cares more about your friend and is more calm and able to talk to your friend and see a way to help her out instead of yelling at her yelling does not solve problems but creates more. because indeed your friend does have a problem and all her drug addictions and drinking problems is a cry for help from her parents and they prolly dont listen. i dont blame you because from the start you have good intentions to help out your friend. just give her time to cool off and find a way to help her out. a 13 year best friend relationship is really a waste to throw away over a silly fight. and if she does not see that then maybe you guys should give each other both some space to talk to other people and get more friends. good luck and dont be ashamed to pray show your faith out and dont care wat other people have to say.
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May 14 2006, 09:31 AM
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QUOTE(iROCKYOURSOCKS @ May 14 2006, 1:42 AM)  first of all if she really has a bad home life you should not have said anything to her dad or else it would be another fight. you should have told an adult who cares more about your friend and is more calm and able to talk to your friend and see a way to help her out instead of yelling at her yelling does not solve problems but creates more. because indeed your friend does have a problem and all her drug addictions and drinking problems is a cry for help from her parents and they prolly dont listen. i dont blame you because from the start you have good intentions to help out your friend. just give her time to cool off and find a way to help her out. a 13 year best friend relationship is really a waste to throw away over a silly fight. and if she does not see that then maybe you guys should give each other both some space to talk to other people and get more friends. good luck and dont be ashamed to pray show your faith out and dont care wat other people have to say. Im sorry but he is the one who came to me asking me for help for her. Its not like I could just say nothing.. because my father was there to he wanted me to say every thing I could.. Not like I could stop right there with out getting yelled at for not telling everything. Her father also cares for her. Its her mom that is the problem. |
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