I fu*ked things up again..., -_- |
 May 12 2006, 05:22 PM
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Ok .. Ive known this girl my hole life.. she is my best friend but she has problem with her home life, drugs, drinking, and others. Her dad came over to my house to ask me questions about my friend.. and I said somthing the wrong way.. and now she claims that I " f**ked up her life".. " AGAIN " .. Its not like we never fought before.. and I have just known her for so long I know how to deal with her pissed off ness. This time I think I f**ked up for good. I told her I was sorry and I dont know what else I can do is pray.. yes im a prayer..
hears some one yell " CHURCHY " behind me.. Yes its true .. this is just one of the other things that she has problems with.. I love her and her to much to let 13 years go down the drain.. ( Im 15 ) Help please? 
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May 12 2006, 10:25 PM
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 I love Havasupai Group: Member Posts: 1,040 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,878 |
Refrain from judging the events in your friend's life. You shouldn't feel guilty about relating factual information that can be verified. The judgement of her quality of life is unnecessary. I'm fairly confident that she knows she has problems. Judgement from you adds unnecessary weight and drama to the situation. Rather than helping, you'll create a distraction that will keep her from looking at herself. The issue will be shifted to your betrayl and only compound the issue.
You could offer an apology if you feel you were in error. If not, let it go. If this relationship is strong, there will be an opportunity to mend it in the future. Give your friend some space to deal with her issues. I wouldn't beat yourself up over something that doesn't seem to have been done intentionally or with malice of forethought. |
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oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo I fu*ked things up again... May 12 2006, 05:22 PM
wind&fire honestly what i think is the most powerful thing ... May 12 2006, 05:29 PM tainted_angel If your friend can realize that throwing a thirtee... May 12 2006, 06:03 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo Yeah I mean really she needs to get over her self ... May 12 2006, 06:33 PM [Mediocre]Artist All you can really do is explain to her that you w... May 12 2006, 10:09 PM silver rain Yeah, just talk to her. Tell her that you didn... May 12 2006, 10:18 PM
oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo QUOTE(illumineering @ May 12 2006, 11:25 ... May 13 2006, 01:50 PM YourPrettyFaceIsGoingToHELL As everyone has already said, tell her that
you di... May 13 2006, 06:55 AM Paradox of Life She needs space. You need space. Don't conside... May 13 2006, 07:44 AM xbabyboo Seems like she needs space to calm down. May 13 2006, 11:26 PM Uronacid yeah, just chill... let it all die down, this will... May 13 2006, 11:47 PM iROCKYOURSOCKS first of all if she really has a bad home life you... May 14 2006, 12:42 AM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo QUOTE(iROCKYOURSOCKS @ May 14 2006, 1:42 ... May 14 2006, 09:31 AM xmoon_lightx Just tell her it was a misunderstanding May 14 2006, 08:03 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo Today...
Things got worce... I was letting her go... May 18 2006, 06:56 PM |
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