What's the worse break-up you've ever been in? Options

[BryMonster]

I haven't been broken up with in any
horrible way. But I've been torn apart
by a break up. One time, I dated this
girl for about half of a year, and we
decided to break up because we just
lost the "spark" for each other. Man,
was that the hardest thing to deal
with. She ended up dating my really
good friend, which tore me up even
more. I was a hermit. I never left
the house. I don't know..maybe I
over-exaggerated. But still, it was
way horrible.

How about you guys?

[*Zatanna*]

Cheating is awful. It is basically the worst thing to happen in a relationship. Even if you forgive the person and decide to stay together, it is always in the back of your mind. You trust them less and start to doubt their feelings for you. It just is the worst, especially if you are supposed to be in love.

I loathe the idea and the act of cheating on someone. If you can't be loyal, then don't be exclusive. Period.

Long story short.
He got some other girl preggo
And I didn't find out until she
was in labor. I think it's more
the way I found out about him
Cheating on me, than him actu-
ally cheating on me, preiod.

That kills me, seriously. My last relationship ended a few weeks after he told me he had slept with another woman (a co-worker of all things) and had discovered that he was going to be a "daddy." He was so ridiculously emotionally selfish about the whole thing. I was actually willing to see him through it, but with all the "poor me" crap he was dishing, I couldn't deal. It was hard enough knowing that he went to work everyday and would see her. I just didn't (nor do I now) have patience for the type of pathetic weakness he so often showed. Seriously, I don't want that type of self centered behavior around my son or myself quite frankly. On a side note - I haven't been able to trust anyone since.

Regarding the cutting commentary - Chii was just saying that he shouldn't blame himself for a girl mutilating herself because of a break up. Don't begrudge her speaking her mind as I don't believe you would appreciate being cut off (no pun intended) from speaking your mind.